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"seeing" someone
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what are peoples definitions on seeing someone,
like dating someone or not?
basically i'm just asking for peoples different definitions
like dating someone or not?
basically i'm just asking for peoples different definitions
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Oh thats put me in a 'lovey dovey' mood
its nice, but not lovey dovey.
just slept with a girl a few times, and now apparently we're seeing each other.......
so does that change any definitions?
she's nice and everything and we get along, just i dont think i'm ready for a "proper" relationship again..whatever they might be...
Maybe you should talk to her about it? She might feel the same, you never know.
:yes: the thing is that unless you actually believe yourself to be in a relationship with this girl then there could be any number of interpretations of what you actually have going - it might help to talk about what your expectations are. Have fun
Turned out what it meant was that we were friends, but with the sex too, and a little bit more intimate.
It doesn't mean that anything's in concrete and that you will end up together. Because he didn't want anything to be committed so he could go home for the summer and sleep and be with someone else.
i'm going away for two months n i'm thinking we should end it before i leave...or else i might go crazy n end up being a clingy freak!
You, my friend, are in exactly my position. But don't end it!
The guy I'm 'seeing' I've been seeing for 2 months. He's away for 3. He'll still come and see me and stuff but there's no commitment. Just means that maybe we'll continue when he gets back, maybe he won't.
Yeah.
Also, the way they display their affection in public kinda gives a clue. The guy I'm seeing has no problem around his friends in his flat. But when we're out in town we don't hold hands or anything.
hehe,thats like the guy i'm seeing as well. lately he'd kinda been backing off n not being so touchy touchy. n we had a chat today, he says he's not ready for a serious relationship for a long time, n we both decided we'd see how we feel about each other when i got back.
but i think i should just try my best to get over him cos it's so difficult for me..i get so emotinal n clingy when i like someone...i don't like it,but i can't really help it!
Now how did i no that you was going to say something like that? lol
Seeing somebody never goes without the "kind of" in front of it.
My situation exactly, chick!
Let's be emotional and clingy together! Whoo! :thumb:
lol!
Ha ha! I'd like to think there was! Could come in handy, huh?
If there is it may well be more related to toilet habits than relationship problems
To me seeing someone is the stage where you're probably exclusive and not actively dating other people, but you're not as yet officially "girlfriend and boyfriend". Seems everyone has a different interpretation though, maybe this is why so many relationships fall at the first hurdle... no one's actually sure what they're doing, who they're with etc. Confusion!
absolutely!...tips on 'how not to be upset if he doesn't text you for a whole day' will be most welcome! lol!...but we're on a break now, and somehow i don't think we'll be getting back together when i get back...
yeah..i can see your point...everyone has their own views n ideas on 'seeing' someone, and when your view differs from that of the person your 'seeing' it gets pretty confusing and difficult!