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why do us guys adore boobs?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bugger off, or feel the full force of my rape alarm
    :lol:

    Not that sexual assault is funny, but you know...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It made him bugger off didn't it?!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, I pulled up following explanation for myself.

    female breasts and genitalia are usually hidden, behind bras/shirts, panties/bikini/trousers.

    Everything that's hidden is interesting for us. If women were walking around topless in summer on construction sites or beaches, or in town etc like men, i don't think boobs were all that interesting.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lipsy wrote:
    sometimes i find myself just sat there holding one haha. kinda like when men sit there with their hands down their pants. except i only do that in private :p

    Same here. It is a comfort thing
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ButtonMoon wrote:
    Same here. It is a comfort thing

    Triple that. I'm facinated with my own boobs. If I didn't have them and men did, I'd be facinated with them on them. I like to look down and sqiush to give myself cleavage during a boring tv show.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my_name wrote:
    Triple that. I'm facinated with my own boobs. If I didn't have them and men did, I'd be facinated with them on them. I like to look down and sqiush to give myself cleavage during a boring tv show.

    I am always gazing at other peoples boobs as well like some kind of perv. :naughty: They are just so.... sexy!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ButtonMoon wrote:
    I am always gazing at other peoples boobs as well like some kind of perv. :naughty: They are just so.... sexy!

    I don't like naked boobs though. Well I like my own, but I just don't like other naked ones. Great cleavage, now thats a different story :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ffs they're not that big.

    it was a joking comment so ffs yourself ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i know we find them incredibly attractive, but why? and for that matter why do we find asses attractive?
    because if youre a hererosexual guy, youre gonna find the sexual private bits of a female attractive arent you?(obviously depending on the individual female)
    Isnt it just completely obvious?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    because if youre a hererosexual guy, youre gonna find the sexual private bits of a female attractive arent you?(obviously depending on the individual female)
    Isnt it just completely obvious?

    Yep, it's purely natural, we like what we see in the other gender (for hetero of course), why? easy so we have sex with them and reproduce... nature doing it's job...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    because if youre a hererosexual guy, youre gonna find the sexual private bits of a female attractive arent you?(obviously depending on the individual female)
    Isnt it just completely obvious?
    Well I don't find the sexual private parts on men attractive per se (especially not hairy scrotums).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lipsy wrote:
    sometimes i find myself just sat there holding one haha. kinda like when men sit there with their hands down their pants. except i only do that in private :p


    haha, me too.

    i reckon boobs are great, theyre like having a combination between sillyputty and a stress ball attached to your stress. fun and comforting.

    and im glad to have discovered that my Cs are not disadvantaged, and wont suffocate my babies to boot! i knew there was an advantage.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Randomgirl wrote:
    Well I don't find the sexual private parts on men attractive per se (especially not hairy scrotums).
    not even on your boyfriend?
    what about sexy mens chests and bums etc?

    I think a lot of guys wouldnt think a close up view of a hairy fanny was that sexy in itself either, but I also think that women in general seem to be a bit different to men about finding random private areas of people they dont even know, sexy.
    I could be wrong though, but I think thats why porn for women featuring naked men, never sold as well as porn aimed at men. Women on average seem to be not as stimulated by the visual stuff.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think a lot of guys wouldnt think a close up view of a hairy fanny was that sexy in itself either, but I also think that women in general seem to be a bit different to men about finding random private areas of people they dont even know, sexy.
    I could be wrong though, but I think thats why porn for women featuring naked men, never sold as well as porn aimed at men. Women on average seem to be not as stimulated by the visual stuff.

    That's exactly it. Men (as a general rule) tend to be far more stimulated by the visual than women are, the example of porn for women is perfect... it does nothing for me. Looking at a picture of a random penis would be more likely to make me vomit than get all hot and bothered, they're hideous as they are.

    But yeah, when it's attached to someone you think is the fittest thing ever and adore completely, well that's when genitalia itself becomes attractive to most women. I think. I suppose it also becomes a lot more attractive when you know what they can do with it, too ;)

    As for breasts, I find them attractive, I'd guess a hell of a lot of people do whether they're sexually attracted to women or not. They're beautiful. But then there's also all the things that they represent in a more abstract way, as people have already said - fertility, femininity, sexuality etc etc. That's partly the reason I think breast implants are hideous (even if the jobs a good'un) because they're the antithesis of everything that breasts signify, to me. If that makes sense :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Agreed with SCC and briggi.

    Personally, I really like bums on guys ;)

    I love grabbing the boys bum - he, however, hates it :p

    Boob implants just look fake, and i dont see why they are considered hot.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know a girl whos not long turned 14 years old with 32Es.. :shocking:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know a girl whos not long turned 14 years old with 32Es.. :shocking:
    amazing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    To be honest, I don't really know or care about why I like big boobs. I just do. I'm also very glad I have a nice big pair to come home to (so to speak).
    I'm very much with you on that one. You're never asked why you like them though? My girlfriend asks me all the time... I never can come up with a consistant answer.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wonder why they named cup sizes with letters...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What Religion is Your Bra?
    A man walked into the ladies department of a Macy's and shyly walked up to the woman behind the counter and said, "I'd like to buy a bra for my wife."
    "What type of bra?" asked the clerk.
    "Type?" inquires the man, "There's more than one type?"
    "Look around," said the saleslady, as she showed a sea of bras in every shape, size, color and material imaginable.


    "Actually, even with all of this variety, there are really only four types of bras to choose from."
    Relieved, the man asked about the types.
    The saleslady replied:
    "There are the Catholic, the Salvation Army, the Presbyterian, and the Baptist types.
    Which one would you prefer?"


    Now totally befuddled, the man asked about the differences between them.
    The Saleslady responded, "It is all really quite simple...


    The Catholic type supports the masses.
    The Salvation Army type lifts the fallen,
    The Presbyterian type keeps them staunch and upright, and
    The Baptist makes mountains out of mole hills.


    Have you ever wondered why A, B, C, D, DD, E, F, G, and H are the letters used to define bra sizes?
    If you have wondered why, but couldn't figure out what the letters stood for, it is about time you became informed!


    (A} Almost Boobs...
    {B} Barely there.
    {C} Can't Complain!
    {D} Dang!
    {DD} Double dang!
    {E} Enormous!
    {F} Fake.
    {G} Get a Reduction.
    {H} Help me, I've fallen and I can't get up !


    Send this to all that will appreciate it!


    They forgot the German bra.


    Holtzemfromfloppen
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wisecrack wrote:


    (A} Almost Boobs...
    {B} Barely there.
    {C} Can't Complain!
    {D} Dang!
    {DD} Double dang!
    {E} Enormous!
    {F} Fake.
    {G} Get a Reduction.
    {H} Help me, I've fallen and I can't get up !


    :lol: I remember my mom sending me that. :p

    At the time I was barely there :grump: Now I'm a good "can't complain" ;) Which is perfect, imo, can clap, yet aren't feakish
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my_name wrote:
    :lol: I remember my mom sending me that. :p

    At the time I was barely there :grump: Now I'm a good "can't complain" ;) Which is perfect, imo, can clap, yet aren't feakish

    well im enormous!
    Thought it was pretty funny when I got it at work
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Personally, I really like bums on guys ;)

    I love grabbing the boys bum - he, however, hates it :p

    I love girls grabbing my bum. Occasionally even grab my own. Lol.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Koka_Kola wrote:
    mmm and im 14 and have 34Es. How amazing.
    I read in one of the tabloids recently that the average size of women's breasts in the UK is going up, and that British women have the biggest boobs in Europe. Therefore, 34E might not be that shocking anymore.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Koka_Kola wrote:
    mmm and im 14 and have 34Es.
    How amazing.

    Truely amazing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Koka_Kola wrote:
    The only thing theyve ever done is get in the way..
    I kind of wish they were a bit smaller
    You could have them reduced, but at the age of 14, I wouldn't recommend it at all. Your body's going through enough changes without adding yet more changes.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    stargalaxy wrote:
    You could have them reduced, but at the age of 14, I wouldn't recommend it at all. Your body's going through enough changes without adding yet more changes.
    well they wouldnt do it for a start. No point while they could be still growing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wisecrack wrote:
    Have you ever wondered why A, B, C, D, DD, E, F, G, and H are the letters used to define bra sizes?
    If you have wondered why, but couldn't figure out what the letters stood for, it is about time you became informed!

    (A} Almost Boobs...
    {B} Barely there.
    {C} Can't Complain!
    {D} Dang!
    {DD} Double dang!
    {E} Enormous!
    {F} Fake.
    {G} Get a Reduction.
    {H} Help me, I've fallen and I can't get up !

    My ex had a code like this regarding legs.

    He told me of this code when we were friends. He said that girls with AA-A boobs had fantastic legs, he said girls with B sized boobs had nice legs, girls with C cups were pushing it and girls with size D or above didn't have nice legs. I had size D cups at the time :yeees:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    B cups are the best :yippe: (in my opinion). I prefer more modest but well mannered things. I wouldn't know where to start with a DD!

    Men adore boobs because they're a symbol of fertility :yes:. Same as we adore bottoms, and a nice lean healthy body. Girls adore manly muscles i.e. chest and stuff cos its a symbol of how well the guy can protect her, and the like the buttocks because it's a symbol of his fertility.

    All about nature really.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I prefer more modest but well mannered things.

    What on Earth is a well-mannered breast? One that doesn't fall out at inoportune moments :confused:
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