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i don't understand this guy
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Hi iv bin readin and i already feel like i know some of u LOL. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> hope u'l help me with my problem?
ugh i dont what 2 do about this guy i like. i reeeealllly like him. weve know each other for about a yr but he lives a little way away and came to stay with me a month ago, since then i cant get himoutta my mind. andwen he was here it was like we were going out (we got really close and did sum stuff but not sex) @ first i thought it was a big drunken mistake, but then it happened again and again.
but now he is gone home and he's being really weird. Like, i don't expect us to be goin out but i think i piss him off loads bc i text him quite a lot, i kind of alwayshave i suppose, but he kind of texts me less now than wen he used to fancy me (wen i knew 4 sure - not sure now.)
and wen he was here we got on so wel, but now he's not and we dont get on as well. and i don't know what he's like, he's so confusing cause hes so hot n cold. one time he'l be tellin me he loves me and the next he'll be like, cu l8r and we wont speak for ages. And its annoyin and i dont know what i shold do or how i should feel!!!
So i dont if i should like him or not! well of course i do like him but i dont whether i should try n stop liking him bc its kind of not working out how i'd like it to cause i feel like he was just using me and if i c him again he's prob goin2 do the same <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> i kind of get the feelin he dont want 2 be commited but i dont wanna b used, surprisingly. LOL
Yikes dont know what to do! I think i come over too over enthusiastic cause i like him so much and i think i scare him off, but when he was here it wasn't like that, we were totally on the same level.
thank-you for your time
ugh i dont what 2 do about this guy i like. i reeeealllly like him. weve know each other for about a yr but he lives a little way away and came to stay with me a month ago, since then i cant get himoutta my mind. andwen he was here it was like we were going out (we got really close and did sum stuff but not sex) @ first i thought it was a big drunken mistake, but then it happened again and again.
but now he is gone home and he's being really weird. Like, i don't expect us to be goin out but i think i piss him off loads bc i text him quite a lot, i kind of alwayshave i suppose, but he kind of texts me less now than wen he used to fancy me (wen i knew 4 sure - not sure now.)
and wen he was here we got on so wel, but now he's not and we dont get on as well. and i don't know what he's like, he's so confusing cause hes so hot n cold. one time he'l be tellin me he loves me and the next he'll be like, cu l8r and we wont speak for ages. And its annoyin and i dont know what i shold do or how i should feel!!!
So i dont if i should like him or not! well of course i do like him but i dont whether i should try n stop liking him bc its kind of not working out how i'd like it to cause i feel like he was just using me and if i c him again he's prob goin2 do the same <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> i kind of get the feelin he dont want 2 be commited but i dont wanna b used, surprisingly. LOL
Yikes dont know what to do! I think i come over too over enthusiastic cause i like him so much and i think i scare him off, but when he was here it wasn't like that, we were totally on the same level.
thank-you for your time
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It MAY be that you are coming on strong and scaring him off, but if he loves you then that shouldn't be the case, and it MAY be that because he lives so far away he may think he can get away with seeing someone else and he's just stringing you along, or it MAY be that he's just not sure how he feels about you yet; in fact there's loads of reasons why he's acting the way he is.
But how are you going to know which reason it is unless you ask him?
FantasyMeister
anyways good luck chuck!