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Not really. If she wants (or has to have) a small wedding then it's up to her, not the guests.
Saying that he might not be bothered that much and you aint got nothing to worry about.
Hope it gets sorted anyway.
Im not saying its the crime of the century to only invite one half of a couple, but it would put me off going to an occasion.
Mind you, I generally hate stuff like that anyway.
personally i (and i assume lots of other people) couldn't give a crap, but all the people i know who've had weddings have had at least one person big stylee fall out with them because they (or their other halves/siblings/children/parents/pets/etc) weren't invited.
so i'd say be honest. but tread carefully :yes:
When you're married or in a long-term relationship then its rude not to invite partners, that's the simple truth. A partnership should be invited, or not. It really does seem to me that the cousin is being spiteful, tbh.
If GWST wasn't invited somewhere I wouldn't go, because if they don't value my partner enough to be there then they obviously don't value me enough to respect my choices.
It is, of course, their choice.
Thanks, i've told him and he was ok about it. He's more worried about how i will be with the mum being there.
It's him btw not her :P
As for him being spiteful i disagree. It's literally only a handful of people going and he can't afford to have extra people going. Personally i couldn't do it BUT i do understand why he's doing it.
Just a feeling