Home Sex & Relationships
At The Mix, we want to make our services as helpful as we can. To do this, we’d love to ask you a few questions about you, your visit to The Mix and its impact. It should take only about 5-10 minutes to complete. Take this survey and get a chance at winning a £200 Amazon voucher​.
Come and join our Support Circle, every Tuesday, 8 - 9:30pm! Sign up here

wondering

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
Do you guys ever wonder what the person your having sex with is thinking???



:wave:

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sauce wrote:
    Do you guys ever wonder what the person your having sex with is thinking?
    No. I already know what they're thinking. It's probably "Oh for God's sake, hurry up and finish already, Danny, I wanna watch some telly" or something like that.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A was having sex the other night and a was wondeing what he was thinking was just hoping it was me and nobody else he was thinking of

    :wave:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can tell what hes thinking.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A could my ex maybe coz was with him for a few year but this lad a cant figure it out
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sauce wrote:
    A could my ex maybe coz was with him for a few year but this lad a cant figure it out

    eh?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I do wonder. To be honest i'm not sure i'd wanna know. It'd probably be a different girl or something!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes but normally my boyfriend tells me to be honest i find it a turn on when he does
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Blairx0 wrote:
    yes but normally my boyfriend tells me to be honest i find it a turn on when he does


    what you mean?

    :wave:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sauce wrote:
    what you mean?

    :wave:

    During sex my boyfriend will tell me what he is thinking like how it feels, what he wants, or how my body looks to him and since it is all sexually and very postive it is a turn on... is that odd?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Blairx0 wrote:
    During sex my boyfriend will tell me what he is thinking like how it feels, what he wants, or how my body looks to him and since it is all sexually and very postive it is a turn on... is that odd?

    ohh i like it when a lad does that too and i'll tell them too.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LacyMay wrote:
    I do wonder. To be honest i'm not sure i'd wanna know. It'd probably be a different girl or something!
    I've been guilty of thinking of another boy whilst sleeping with someone! :o
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ohh i like it when a lad does that too and i'll tell them too.


    same here but this lad is not giving nothing away, you reckon i should ask him? Dont wanna kill the mood tho

    sauce xx

    :wave:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sauce wrote:
    same here but this lad is not giving nothing away, you reckon i should ask him? Dont wanna kill the mood tho

    sauce xx

    :wave:

    You don't have to kill the mood. Just while your in bed you could say in a very 'sexy' voice " baby talk to me, tell me how I feel" some guys like when you talk between moans...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Blairx0 wrote:
    You don't have to kill the mood. Just while your in bed you could say in a very 'sexy' voice " baby talk to me, tell me how I feel" some guys like when you talk between moans...


    Really??? might give it a go thanx

    sauce xx

    :wave:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yea, wonder if its another guy. But im paranoid about these things :chin:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sorry this has nothing to do with the topic. but do you have to put the damn wave in every post?!


    what wrong with that like?

    sauce xx

    that better??
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LacyMay wrote:
    I do wonder. To be honest i'm not sure i'd wanna know. It'd probably be a different girl or something!

    Same here. As long as they don't say a different name, its all good.

    Though, I honestly dont' think I think of anything during sex. My mind just like blanks out... I don't think of the person I'm doing. Or anybody else, or even whats on tv or what I want to eat. Just nothing.
    So I really hope nobody ever asks that question.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Blairx0 wrote:
    You don't have to kill the mood. Just while your in bed you could say in a very 'sexy' voice " baby talk to me, tell me how I feel" some guys like when you talk between moans...

    I would feel so stupid saying that. I just can't say "baby" in that context without laughing.

    I laugh so much during sex, I just get in that mood sometimes when everything is funny to me. Sometimes I don't laugh though :naughty:

    Unlike my_name I think about all sorts, like how cute he looks from that angle of how lovely his smile is. I'm usually thinking about whether he is enjoying himself and wondering what he is thinking.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    they're thinking 'wow she's a good shag', of course. :yes:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would feel so stupid saying that. I just can't say "baby" in that context without laughing.

    I laugh so much during sex, I just get in that mood sometimes when everything is funny to me. Sometimes I don't laugh though :naughty:

    Unlike my_name I think about all sorts, like how cute he looks from that angle of how lovely his smile is. I'm usually thinking about whether he is enjoying himself and wondering what he is thinking.


    I'm the same (not really the laughing)

    I usually think how cute he looks, how good it is... or "ew, I dont like those facials" "should my eyes be open?" "should I call out his name, or will that sound silly?" "shit, what if the neighbours/parents hear me/the bed"

    I was sick a couple of weeks ago, and everytime I coughed during sex, it went real tight down there. It apparantly felt weird, like squashing it.
Sign In or Register to comment.