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oral sex anyone?
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Hello ,
Have been with my girlfriend for nearly 3 years now and all is well , and sex is good- but is starting to get boring! The truth is we have never had any oral sex or experimented with too many positions etc.. I have tried a few times but she just says no ( tried going down on her etc.). She has never gone down on me and im beginning to really want her too, how do I ‘persuade’ her to, without sounding like a perv or chauvinist pig?!? The fact I she is a little timid with this sort of thing and our sex life has improved greatly since we first started going out but things seem to have come to a halt and are stuck in the same routine, at the age of 21! Help
would be gratefull for any advice
mike
Have been with my girlfriend for nearly 3 years now and all is well , and sex is good- but is starting to get boring! The truth is we have never had any oral sex or experimented with too many positions etc.. I have tried a few times but she just says no ( tried going down on her etc.). She has never gone down on me and im beginning to really want her too, how do I ‘persuade’ her to, without sounding like a perv or chauvinist pig?!? The fact I she is a little timid with this sort of thing and our sex life has improved greatly since we first started going out but things seem to have come to a halt and are stuck in the same routine, at the age of 21! Help
would be gratefull for any advice
mike
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Don't put any pressure on your gf, as this may make her feel even worse.
Communication is key to any relationship :yes:. You need to find out why she is so reluctant to talk about your sex life. In order to improve it she is going to need to be more open to discuss it.
Maybe your seduction isn't enough, maybe the location isn't good (esp. if you live with parents), maybe she thinks it's "dirty". Be gentle, take your time and if it's going to happen then it will.