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Is masturbating sex or not?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I have not had sex or masturbated for 20days. Today i masturbated by i didnt climax it was just for a brief moment like 1-3 minutes. Would that be considered masturbation? I m try to control my masturbation, because i masturbate like 2 times a day, everyday especially when i am back at my dorm. This was just to help me last longer when i made love to my lover. But it back fired & i masturbate more then acutal sex, so, in order to stop this self pleasure i tried no t masturbating for 60days, so if i just jack the penis but not to the point where its about the climax just a little pleasure it that considered maturbations or not? :confused:

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Micro wrote:
    I have not had sex or masturbated for 20days. Today i masturbated by i didnt climax it was just for a brief moment like 1-3 minutes.

    USe of the verb masturbate...
    Micro wrote:
    Would that be considered masturbation?

    Well yeah otherwise you would have use the verb masturbate...
    You can masturbate without coming if that's what you mean...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i would consider it masturbating
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    that's pretty much masturbation. You're just robbing yourself of the good part.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes thats masturbation.
    but no masturbation is not sex.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why is it important?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    that's pretty much masturbation. You're just robbing yourself of the good part.

    lol
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Funniest post ever...

    I'm genuinely lol'ling

    On a more serious note, how did you manage 20 days :)
    I'm imagining scenes from 40 days and 40 nights
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    In my opinion, it is not SEX but it is a SEXUAL act.

    I found a website once where the posters all purposely avoided masturbation for as long as possible (even hundreds of days) and then film how far they ejaculate etc ... :blush: ... I found it by accident. Honest. :blush:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote:
    I found it by accident. Honest. :blush:
    :chin: yeah right
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote:
    In my opinion, it is not SEX but it is a SEXUAL act.

    I found a website once where the posters all purposely avoided masturbation for as long as possible (even hundreds of days) and then film how far they ejaculate etc ... :blush: ... I found it by accident. Honest. :blush:

    :lol:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    is masturbating actually a problem? it just keeps you from turning into one of those sick, twisted nechrophiliacs?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    is masturbating actually a problem? it just keeps you from turning into one of those sick, twisted nechrophiliacs?

    What's not having a wank got to do with digging up a stiff and shagging someones Granny?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ^^ post of the week tbh :lol:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think he should try masturbaters anonymous.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yah that is masturbation, even if you didnt climax, and masturbation is not sex
  • Teh_GerbilTeh_Gerbil Posts: 13,332 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Masturbation is masturbation... regardless of climaxing or not. But as everyone has said... it is hardly sex. Quite a difference tbh.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You're just robbing yourself of the good part.

    Exactly. It's like licking the chocolate off a jaffa cake and then munching the sponge but leaving the yummy orangey bit.
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