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Nooooooooooooo! I've Been Friend Zoned'd!
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*crys*
if you'll remember awhile back i made a topic worried that the girl of my dreams was having second thoughts. see right after we started going out things had been a little shaky. I had gone on here and people convinced me I was being paranoid. thing had gone great since then. but then today completely randomly I recieved a note that basically said "we've been great friends for liek 6 years and it feels really wierd going out with you after we've been so friends. I just can't see you like that. I think we should just be friends"
fuck fuck fuck! I am such a dumbass! I could have done something! grrrrrrr! everything was going great then BAM! *crys*
and to make matters worse this means I have officially gone out with every girl who I've had feelings for in my grade level. and summer is coming in like 3 weeks meaning it looks like I have at least 3 or 4 months before I can even consider going out with someone
THIS SUCKS!!!!! :banghead: :nervous: :crying: :crying: :mad: :no:
if you'll remember awhile back i made a topic worried that the girl of my dreams was having second thoughts. see right after we started going out things had been a little shaky. I had gone on here and people convinced me I was being paranoid. thing had gone great since then. but then today completely randomly I recieved a note that basically said "we've been great friends for liek 6 years and it feels really wierd going out with you after we've been so friends. I just can't see you like that. I think we should just be friends"
fuck fuck fuck! I am such a dumbass! I could have done something! grrrrrrr! everything was going great then BAM! *crys*
and to make matters worse this means I have officially gone out with every girl who I've had feelings for in my grade level. and summer is coming in like 3 weeks meaning it looks like I have at least 3 or 4 months before I can even consider going out with someone
THIS SUCKS!!!!! :banghead: :nervous: :crying: :crying: :mad: :no:
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Oh and my sympathies for being put in the friend zone, that's never good.
You don't need a girlfriend to define yourself, btw.
But I agree with 1983, you don't need a girlfriend. I even think just wanting a girlfriend is kinda stupid, unless you're referring to a specific girl.
:yes:
Whilst there are perks to be being in a relationship, being through a difficult one and looking back on it, I was more unhappy in the relationship because I was worrying, than when I was out of it.
Have fun being single if you get into a long relationship you might miss it because you didn't enjoy it, but then you'd be in a relationship you didn't want to end because it's good.
Hope it goes ok for ya though