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Hi.. :wave:
this is only my second post so be nice!
Sorry to trouble you guys, but I'm just after some advice about my current relationship.
I've been with a guy for a fair few months and I've decided that I'm in love with him
. I've never been in love before, whereas he has. I want to tell him but I'm scared of his reaction. If he doesn't say it back I know that I'm going to be hurt by it no matter what. I know that he has been hurt in the past and so maybe he is reluctant to say it.
So, should I bite the bullet and say what I feel? Or leave it and wait for him to say it (if he ever does)? Maybe he is waiting for me to say it first?
And if you think I should say it, ideas for how to say it..or just a simple "i love you"?
Cheers guys.
this is only my second post so be nice!
Sorry to trouble you guys, but I'm just after some advice about my current relationship.
I've been with a guy for a fair few months and I've decided that I'm in love with him
. I've never been in love before, whereas he has. I want to tell him but I'm scared of his reaction. If he doesn't say it back I know that I'm going to be hurt by it no matter what. I know that he has been hurt in the past and so maybe he is reluctant to say it.So, should I bite the bullet and say what I feel? Or leave it and wait for him to say it (if he ever does)? Maybe he is waiting for me to say it first?
And if you think I should say it, ideas for how to say it..or just a simple "i love you"?
Cheers guys.
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