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getting more into bondage?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
hi all.

My girlfriend and i have been having fun with a little light bondage while playing around and having sex (not all the time). Mainly we've been tieing each other up, blindfolds, a neck, ankle and wrist leather chain restrains. and bondage tape, while teasing each other.

After talking last night we both said that we're like to get heavier into it, but we dont know where to begin. Does anyone here have any good sites that we can get ideas or advise from. I've had a look on here on the site but not found anything (other than light stuff we already do).

Thanks
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Learn the ropes, you can do much more that with chains and tape... you can do shit loads, up to suspension if you get good enough... and it is a beautiful art... there is plenty of tutorials around for it... will PM you some good links... also you could join a community like bondage.com... and after it depends if it's only bondage you are looking for or bdsm?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    BDSM is a symptom of mental illness!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Gedd-E-Lee wrote:
    BDSM is a symptom of mental illness!

    shut_up1.jpg
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What freak gets pleasure from being spanked or tied up?!

    It's not balanced!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Gedd-E-Lee wrote:
    What freak gets pleasure from being spanked or tied up?!

    It's not balanced!

    same way a BDSM "freak" could get confused at why you yourselfprefer straight vanilla sex, each to their own
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Gedd-E-Lee wrote:
    What freak gets pleasure from being spanked or tied up?!

    It's not balanced!
    me :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MrG wrote:
    same way a BDSM "freak" could get confused at why you yourselfprefer straight vanilla sex, each to their own

    Er, no dingus.

    "Vanilla sex" is how we reproduce! So it HAS to be normal.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MrG wrote:
    same way a BDSM "freak" could get confused at why you yourselfprefer straight vanilla sex, each to their own

    exactly...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you can reproduce while having kinky sex too!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    SuzyCreamcheese wrote:
    me :D

    You're proud of not being balanced?

    I wonder what the consultants at your local psychiatric ward think about that!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    can anyone else smell a troll?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Gedd-E-Lee wrote:
    Er, no dingus.

    "Vanilla sex" is how we reproduce! So it HAS to be normal.

    You're just close minded... that's cool... don't judge what you don't understand tho...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    SuzyCreamcheese wrote:
    you can reproduce while having kinky sex too!

    Not by being tied up, fucknut.

    Most people don't conceive by being spanked and having their nipples clipped.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nihilisticmadman wrote:
    You're just close minded... that's cool... don't judge what you don't understand tho...

    Shit why?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Gedd-E-Lee wrote:
    You're proud of not being balanced?

    I wonder what the consultants at your local psychiatric ward think about that!
    not proud especially, not really ashamed either. I have seen a lot more unbalanced than me in my time. I actually think im pretty well balanced in general. I cant help my sexual preferences though any more than you can help yours.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Gedd-E-Lee wrote:
    Shit why?

    cos you are so low that you come and go totally of topic and start calling people name... the topic is not that bondage is normal or not, it's asking advice on what can be done...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OK freak.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey, don't knock it 'til you've tried it...

    I can only assume you haven't, what with it being "abnormal" and "unbalanced"

    :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Gedd-E-Lee wrote:
    OK freak.
    ok mr abusive
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Gedd-E-Lee wrote:
    Not by being tied up, fucknut.

    Most people don't conceive by being spanked and having their nipples clipped.

    not unless they have sex as well, youre quite right.
    people dont concieve by any part of foreplay.
    You sure sound like you have a fun sex life :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Gedd-E-Lee wrote:
    OK freak.

    And proud of it!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Gedd-E-Lee wrote:
    BDSM is a symptom of mental illness!

    Great, does it qualify you for various prescription drugs too?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Toast.jpg
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't watse your time on him SCC, your one of the best people on here I find for advice, you give honest answers and never judge anyone.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote:
    Great, does it qualify you for various prescription drugs too?

    It should.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Little_one wrote:
    Don't watse your time on him SCC, your one of the best people on here I find for advice, you give honest answers and never judge anyone.
    Thankyou shnookums :)

    Im not bothered tho. Im 90% sure this is monocrat returning again under a different name. Mods will toast him in the morning.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Gedd-E-Lee wrote:
    BDSM is a symptom of mental illness!

    I bet your a barrel of laughs down the pub
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Pubs are for dicks.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Gedd-E-Lee wrote:
    Pubs are for dicks.

    I bet your a barrel of laughs down the clubs
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I admit it, I smell a rat SCC, a morocat sized one!
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