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How To Tell Him... (Guys Answer Too Please!)
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Ladies:
You're lying with your bf/fancyman/fiancee/husband and he tries to put his fingers 'down there'. However, you're on your period, and you have to stop him before things just get messy. How do you tell him?
Guys:
You're a bit excited, and you wanna heat her up a bit too. Your hand reaches down there, but she opens her mouth as if to tell you she's on period and so the game must be paused. How best would you like her to put it across?
Merci!
You're lying with your bf/fancyman/fiancee/husband and he tries to put his fingers 'down there'. However, you're on your period, and you have to stop him before things just get messy. How do you tell him?
Guys:
You're a bit excited, and you wanna heat her up a bit too. Your hand reaches down there, but she opens her mouth as if to tell you she's on period and so the game must be paused. How best would you like her to put it across?
Merci!
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also it aint cos you are on your period that you have to stop...
I mean, before, my bfs have stopped straight away. Cause, to be fair, it's a bit messy, right?
Tis my past technique anyway.
And I guess if then they wanna carry on, then they can do.
Some girls i've being with have being bothered about it and stopped me by saying "I'm on" (standard shit), some warn me with the same comment but let me carry on. Apparently sex is better for girls when they're on, but as I'm a lad I'll never know, this is what some girls have told me in the past anyway.
And he was just like, "Ah..." and kept well away.
Doesn't mean that I can't have my way with him though! Mwoahahaha!
Same as.
Agreed that it definitely doesn't mean getting it on is an automatic no-no; but I suppose it's only polite to give your fella fair warning
Heheh! Deffo!
Saying that, he didn't need telling last time because I was so cranky for the whole week. :yeees:
stronger orgasms because of increased blood flow to the area.
It depends on the lad. A tiny bit of blood has never put me off, there's nothing toxic about it. I probably wouldn't go down on a girl then, but that's all.
If you don't want him to continue then tell him. Say you're on and you feel a bit sore down there. I don't understand why you would be ashamed of being on your period though, its natural, and as long as you tell him I don't think it'll send him running for miles either. And apparently one of the best cures for the cramping is an orgasm.
Besides, he might like it.
:yes: by libido is higher, but from behind hurts
I just tell him on my period and if he wants to badly, I'll get a tampon in there and we just use lube. I have a problem about him getting blood on him. Its yuck. And I'll only have sex in light bleeding times (at the end of the week)
Umm clarify what you mean please. How can you have a tampon in and have sex, you can't.
But yeah, I always thought telling straight made more sense. I just thought the idea kinda creeped guys out/ turned them off. But your responses say otherwise. Tis all good.
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If you want sex don't let a bit of blood put you off, but if you don't want it then its a good enough reason. Just remember that you'll probably need to use quite a lot of lube if you have sex during your period, as wearing a tampon can dry everything out even though you obviously take it out before you have sex.
I used to think that too but since being with my boyfriend- he seems to know more about periods that I do