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Eye Contact?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
It has come to my attention that on various websites and magazines, the key to a great blow job is 'eye contact'.

Apparently, according to many of these, eye contact will really get him off.

HOWEVER! I've found the task to be somewhat impossible. I've also found that if I ever do look at him, his eyes are elsewhere (ie, the ceiling).

Do guys actually genuinely even care if a girl is looking at him, so long as she's giving him good head?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's nice to be looked at, it shows she's enjoying giving you the pleasure, but I'd find it a bit creepy to be stared at.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A few glances would do.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm all for the few glances, just cause I like to see how he's responding...

    But yeah... I just wondered if it really did matter to guys.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    neva given one, but my guy gave me eye contact when he gave me oral and it was "appreciated" because i knew then he was caring about how i was feeling?...did that make sense.......i cnt put what i wanna say in words...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, no one likes a starer.

    But - if it's physically possible - a bit of eye contact is a good thing... whatever activity you're engaging in. ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I get neck cramps trying to give eye contact.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my_name wrote:
    I get neck cramps trying to give eye contact.

    Me too! Do try though....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The human body will expel semen regarless of eye contact. Pleasure is going to be a certainty. If the penis is stimulated enough, sooner or later it will expunge its fluid. It's undeniable. That kind of research is useless.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    junker wrote:
    The human body will expel semen regarless of eye contact. Pleasure is going to be a certainty.
    What you can vary is the quality and quantity of the pleasure.

    While there's nowt wrong wth sex purely for physical pleasure, a bit of human interaction can be fun as well.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Violette wrote:
    i think they like it if you pull your hair back so they can watch actually everything. quite a few lads have moved my hair so they can have front row seats. and just a few glances, haha, not actually staring at him.

    Yeah for sure !

    Looking up at least a few times is essential too :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Violette wrote:
    i think they like it if you pull your hair back so they can watch actually everything. quite a few lads have moved my hair so they can have front row seats. and just a few glances, haha, not actually staring at him.

    Yep it's a good thing... some women like to watch too when you go down on them... for a blowjob you can also let the bloke pull your hair out of they way, that way he can be in control of the speed of the blowjob too... also that way the woman will fell more submissive... so depends if she want to fell more submissive or not... and yes eye cntact is good too... but not too much...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I tried this out again. Just cause.

    It's all good, cause I've figured that it's not entirely humanly impossible to do without hurting too much.

    Yay!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You don't actually have to be 'sucking' (sorry, it sounds weird to say it lol) when you look at him, if you take a break for a moment and then look him in the eye it will have a similar effect. It's just nice when you can see her eyes that she's not reaaaaaallly pissed off to be doing that. If you get me :confused:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    One of my exes loved me staring into his eyes whilst I gave him a blow job.

    Apparently it really turned him on.

    I find it quite difficult to do though plus I don't like them staring at me! Makes me feel a little awkward!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    TheShyBoyInTheCorner wrote:
    You don't actually have to be 'sucking' (sorry, it sounds weird to say it lol) when you look at him, if you take a break for a moment and then look him in the eye it will have a similar effect. It's just nice when you can see her eyes that she's not reaaaaaallly pissed off to be doing that. If you get me :confused:

    That makes sense. I do that. Yay!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    TheShyBoyInTheCorner wrote:
    You don't actually have to be 'sucking' (sorry, it sounds weird to say it lol) when you look at him, if you take a break for a moment and then look him in the eye it will have a similar effect. It's just nice when you can see her eyes that she's not reaaaaaallly pissed off to be doing that. If you get me :confused:

    Maybe but it's definately better if they do it when they are sucking let's not lie to ourselves here
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