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Strange porn advice, if you please

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
Well, I mentioned to my girlfriend that I was watching porn t'other day, she's never really approved and so I'm normally honest with her about it so she doesn't feel like I'm cheating on her with porn, or something. It was only to pass the time whilst I was bored anyway. I think she worries that I think the girls in porn are more attractive than her, which is really untrue, but I think that's a lot of girls anyway.

But back to the point - she said to me although it made her feel a bit, wrong almost, it also turned her on. Queue a bit of a rampant session (me thinking 'wtf?' whilst enjoying myself thoroughly :)) and now she wants to watch some with me...

...so any suggestions? She said she was quite interested by m/m porn, so maybe some of that, but nothing too hardcore maybe. Or maybe she's a closet porn lover and wants it really dirty? She's asked me to choose. I'm really confused! Normally I just go on one of these porn journal things where they have links to random free stuff, nothing substantial really.

I was considering getting something quite nice off literotica.com and letting her read through it to get used to the idea, but she seemed interested because watching porn was so 'naughty' almost. :chin:

I dont really wanna pay through the teeth for anything expensive though, any recommendations for a newbie?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well if she want porn, it's porn, not erotica... So take proper porn...

    Take some crap Like "Debbie does Dallas", "Debbie does Hollywood" or someting like that, it's porn but not too hardcore...

    And to save money can always download it...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    have a look at some of the reviews on the sites you buy it from. Porn is normally a male thing, but some women like it too. others find it ok, or wont watch it. personally i wouldn't bother with any of the soft stuff as, its laughable and shit. just Jump in there buy some of the more hardcore stuff. but as i said read the reviews to what both men and women thought.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    everyone is different as to their tastes in porn, such as mine are different to some of my friends. same goes for ladies.

    ive had female companions before that have liked the dirtiest stuff possible, others just prefer the story based ones. maybe you should just full on ask her, or perhaps choose something together
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    koe_182 wrote:
    everyone is different as to their tastes in porn, such as mine are different to some of my friends. same goes for ladies.

    ive had female companions before that have liked the dirtiest stuff possible, others just prefer the story based ones. maybe you should just full on ask her, or perhaps choose something together
    very good advise. my girlfriend is into a bid of bondage but hates the bondage porn. as Koe182 said chose one together
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Go to Ann summers, either online or a shop and look together, then you can see what stuff shes in to
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    H-face wrote:
    Go to Ann summers, either online or a shop and look together, then you can see what stuff shes in to

    no offence but ann summers is shite for porn, think ive probably gotta a wider selection than there.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    koe_182 wrote:
    no offence but ann summers is shite for porn, think ive probably gotta a wider selection than there.

    Ann summers is shite for a lot of stuff imo...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wow, I didn't know anyone actually paid for porn. :chin:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wow, I didn't know anyone actually paid for porn. :chin:

    for me, maybe im just different, theres nothing sexy about looking at porn on the internet wi t'missus while closing a load of pop-ups. for sake of a tenner, do it properly.

    wheres the romance!

    ps. im not a porn fanatic btw.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dont think she actually enjoys it though, in fact she dislikes it! But it seemed to turn her on because it was a bit 'naughty'. Hmmmmm :chin:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Got a video camera? You could always make the porn rather than trying to choose some, and it's free that way.

    I agree that it's best to ask her what kind she wants, and if she doesn't know then just rent a few from Blockbusters.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    koe_182 wrote:
    for me, maybe im just different, theres nothing sexy about looking at porn on the internet wi t'missus while closing a load of pop-ups. for sake of a tenner, do it properly.

    wheres the romance!

    ps. im not a porn fanatic btw.

    huh, just use a p2p, all the porn you want without the bullshit ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    H-face wrote:
    Go to Ann summers, either online or a shop and look together, then you can see what stuff shes in to


    ann summers + porn dont mix


    best off finding some american shit on the internet, but make sure it's one with lots of tease and foreplay in it, and isnt too dodgy, and where the girls are more sexy than hot (though not ugly)


    im still trying to find some myself :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yea go hardcore. Show here the soft stuff and she will be bored titless....

    Give her a good hard shock. MMMMF....that'll do it! "airtight"
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MattMatt wrote:
    Yea go hardcore. Show here the soft stuff and she will be bored titless....

    Give her a good hard shock. MMMMF....that'll do it! "airtight"

    wish i was your girlfriend pal :heart:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, that was certainly an experience.... :eek:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, that was certainly an experience.... :eek:

    don't keep us in suspense, dish dish :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    don't keep us in suspense, dish dish :p

    lol. it was just different, you know? I think its nice to have something new every now and again. But at the end of the day its the things that are the same that make it really great :)

    In retrospect it was quite funny, afterwards I half fell asleep and she got on with some homework on her lap! :lol:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    She said she was quite interested by m/m porn, so maybe some of that, but nothing too hardcore maybe.

    m/m porn? Dude, I have gigs of the stuff ... :p ... want some?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    so you just sat there and watched it and didnt do anything sexual? or did you and then just end when the movie ended?

    Oh no, it certainly got us in the mood and stuff... but after everything, I mean. It was quite mindblowing really, we abandoned the porn early on but initially it was fun, like an extension of foreplay really.
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