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Do you think music can affect the way you have sex?

Meaning will tender music will make you have more gentle love and more agressive music will make you have sex a bit rougher...
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yep. Well for me it is anyway. It can set the pace.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im not a big fan of music while i play, it tends to make me laugh.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When its all nice and sweet love making sometimes its nice to have some slow music on, but i wouldnt really listen to anything when having rougher sex.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I like to wack on a bit of Michel Jackson - Bad

    Then naked moon walk my way over to the bed and shout "who's bad" just before comencing the deed!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    JamesZero wrote:
    I like to wack on a bit of Michel Jackson - Bad

    Then naked moon walk my way over to the bed and shout "who's bad" just before comencing the deed!

    :lol:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nihilisticmadman wrote:
    Do you think music can affect the way you have sex?

    Meaning will tender music will make you have more gentle love and more agressive music will make you have sex a bit rougher...

    Depends whether the girl like it rough or gentle...
    It can play a part I suppose. Slow jams definitely.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Only had sex with music once before and that was classical and the spooky part was as the music reached its climax so did my boyfriend. Bless him the one night he went all out with his bedroom to make it romantic, candles, the lot!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Foxxy_Cymru wrote:
    When its all nice and sweet love making sometimes its nice to have some slow music on, but i wouldnt really listen to anything when having rougher sex.

    :yes:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cute_chicky wrote:
    Only had sex with music once before and that was classical and the spooky part was as the music reached its climax so did my boyfriend. Bless him the one night he went all out with his bedroom to make it romantic, candles, the lot!

    I'd cringe so much if my boyfriend did the whole candles thing..especially with classical music?! Surely you can't have sex to classical music. Each to their own I suppose...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Pink Soda wrote:
    Surely you can't have sex to classical music.

    Ahhhh, you've clearly never fucked to the 1812 or William Tell overtures.


    Da da da da da da da daaaaaaaaa da da!
  • smitherzsmitherz Posts: 968 Part of The Mix Family
    If your going to have music, i would go for a smooth R&B beat.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    smitherz wrote:
    If your going to have music, i would go for a smooth R&B beat.

    No way, that'd be worse. I couldn't cope with lyrics like 'shake your booty'.

    In fact, I think no lyrics would be best. But that doesn't mean I will ever condone shagging to Beethoven's 5th Symphony.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I actually made a couple of compilations just before Valentines Day, 2cd's of music to get down to...
    CD1
    1. Last night – Az yet
    2. In those jeans – Genuwine
    3. Your body’s callin’ – R Kelly
    4. I’ll make love to you – Boyz II men
    5. I’m your angel – Celine Dion & R Kelly
    6. Grind with me – Pretty Ricky
    7. Freakin’ you – Jodeci
    8. Unpredictable – Jamie Foxx ft Ludacris
    9. I swear – Boyz II men
    10. Three times a lady – Lionel Richie
    11. Could I have this kiss forever – Whitney Houston ft Enrique Inglesias
    12. Bump ‘n; grind – R Kelly
    13. How deep is your love – Dru Hill
    14. Still in love with you – Brian McKnight
    15. Don’t let go – En Vogue
    16. Breathe again – Toni Braxton

    CD2
    1. You do something to me – Paul Weller
    2. I don’t wanna miss a thing – Aerosmith
    3. Wrap my words around you – Daniel Bedingfield
    4. Hero – Enrique Inglesias
    5. You’re beautiful – James Blunt
    6. November Rain – Gunz & roses
    7. Kiss from a rose – Seal
    8. No ordinary love – Sade
    9. Erotica – Madonna
    10. Yellow – Coldplay
    11. Heartbeats – Jose Gonzales
    12. If you’re not the one – Daniel Bedingfield
    13. The Blowers Daughter – Damien Rice
    14. Tears and rain – James Blunt
    15. Stole – Kelly Rowland
    16. red red wine – Bob Marley

    Got too much free time sometimes!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Please god no, Daniel Bedingfield? Among others.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Pink Soda wrote:
    I'd cringe so much if my boyfriend did the whole candles thing..especially with classical music?! Surely you can't have sex to classical music. Each to their own I suppose...

    It was over valentines day or our aniversary I think ... I thought it was sweet... more of a suprise as he is never remotely romantic so I just made the most of it lol

    I cant imagine doing it to dance or trance etc ugh!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well if you have flatmates the music can help drown out the sex noises you make. This is the only time I have bothered with music for sexing to.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    We've never really had sex to music... havent really thought about it. maybe next time hehehe
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    migpilot wrote:
    2. I don’t wanna miss a thing – Aerosmith
    3. Wrap my words around you – Daniel Bedingfield
    4. Hero – Enrique Inglesias

    6. November Rain – Gunz & roses
    7. Kiss from a rose – Seal

    16. red red wine – Bob Marley

    Got too much free time sometimes!!

    all of these would make me laugh ridiculously!

    and it was UB40 that did red red wine...

    there is a queens of the stone age song, i think its called jet plane, and there is just something about that song that really gets me...

    anybody who fucks to slayer has a problem...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dont really listen to music at all.

    However. When doing things, music can provide something... a mood, an atmosphere. Nothing with lyrics though. I like classical music :blush:

    eta: actually, some frank sinatra can get things set up nicely too :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    closer by nine inch nails is............well intresting....:lol:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    to the point... i think it does affect after all...

    one thing I like to play while going at it is the prodigy's entire smack my bitch up album...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dudewhereismycar wrote:
    to the point... i think it does affect after all...

    one thing I like to play while going at it is the prodigy's entire smack my bitch up album...

    :lol: I'd love to see a girls face when you put that on before having sex with her.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm sorry but i do not see the point in having music on. Especially as most of the blokes i've shagged would be done before the song had even kicked in.

    One ex used to play Usher while we were er doing it cos he lived in a bedsit and bloke next to him could hear everything. Can't help but think everytime he heard that tune he knew what was going on anyway :chin:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I like to get dirty to the Fast Food Rockers...

    A pizza hut a pizza hut kentucky frieds chicken and a pizza hut!

    GET IN!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, i thought foreplay was all good listening to music until just as I started licking her out, what song came on "My neck, my back, lick my pussy and my crack"..this really isn't a joke lol, I don't think I've laughed so much in my life! But I find a bit of Mary J Blige goes well with sex ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    mystifymysoul wrote:
    :lol: I'd love to see a girls face when you put that on before having sex with her.

    i'm a chick... lol... i don't have sex with "her" :shocking: lol...
    on the other hand, i like norah jones as well... but usually don't have time to think about playing music because my man & i get really "busy" for the run. :naughty:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LacyMay wrote:
    I'm sorry but i do not see the point in having music on. Especially as most of the blokes i've shagged would be done before the song had even kicked in.

    One ex used to play Usher while we were er doing it cos he lived in a bedsit and bloke next to him could hear everything. Can't help but think everytime he heard that tune he knew what was going on anyway :chin:

    me and my boyfriend have to put music on too lol, my flatmate was always laughin at us coz he could hear everything, so now we put music on, but surely hearing the music is better?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Depends on the guy i suppose, i've had sex to the bobby valentino album, definetely a superb album, as it has variety of slow and faster paced songs, top ones including lights down low,i'll forgive you, never leave you, its quite a sexual album!Also don't knock John Legend, if a bit of sensuality is what your after, check out this album!!

    Never thought bout having sex to Guns and Roses though!! :thumb: thanx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think I'd be distracted, which good help with staying power, I don't know. I have a few gentle piano led songs that would set an incredible atmosphere........

    I do know that some songs make me horny as hell. Regardless of what mood I've been in, Another Kind of Green by John Mayer and Tender Surrender by Steve Vai make we want to fuck.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you want to be unoriginal then Counting Crows- Colourblind

    or failing that.. Pink- You Make Me Sick
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