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How big a deal is sex?
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Just curious. DO you think it's a big deal or not?
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Hope it continues as long as possible
Is sex a big deal and is it important to have it?
I am not too sure, for me sex is a way of showing love to one an other, but for some it is also important to have it just to get some. Also sex can bring you sme of the most amazing sensation available to human.
Is sex a big deal in a relationship?
For me it isn't, I love having it and even having a lot, but my relationship is not based around it and I could be in a relationship without any. In a relationship Love is the key and sex is just a way of expressing your love but it is not the only way or the more important way.
Is sex a big deal and need to have it to look normal?
Then imo it's not, it's not a big deal to not have sex if everyone else does, everyone should do it when it feels right and not rush into it cos of mates/society pressure.
But there are many many things that are more important and that i'd rather do...tbh 9/10 id rather curl up with whoever i'm with, watch a movie, and just with our arms around each other without sex....
so no i don't think sex is that big a thing
And vice versa!
sexless relationships arent much fun at all, and wildly mis-matched sex drives can be really hard on the self esteem.
Definatly! I had to experience that. (well not really, I just overreact and freak out alot
After literally a month of being broken (aka period, I dont have sex during it) 2 days into me being able to have sex again, the second day I didn't get any and I just went off on the boyfriend the next morning. I just freaked out. I felt real bad about myself actually, thinking, you couldn't make an effort, am I that revolting. I went sexless crazy.
God forbid he be dead tired, but still
you cant just decide yes its a big deal - for some it is, for some it disnt.
I dont think its a "big deal" but i do think its pretty important and a really good thing, which is totally different lol but thats just in my opinion.
Sex in society? Not so sure. It seems to be more and more popular that sex is power. The more you're able to get, the more you'Re regarded in society.
I don't like this thought, but I think it's just the way this all is developing.
Like many other people already said: Sex is only an issue to you, if you ain't getting it. Sex is something for the moment, you don't feel different after one week of no sex or 4 months of no sex, it's just not a lasting sensation.
It's not the most important thing in my life, but a relationship can't really survive without sex IMHO.
In a relationship it's not the most important thing and in life it isn't either. But it's well frustrating when there is none available!