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Men After Sex
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Are all men the same?
After sex do they just lie there and not want to talk but just stare at the TV with the odd mmm at any comment you make?
Today afterwards my boyfriend just started playing on the playstation which i thought was charming!
Does anyone have similar experiences?
After sex do they just lie there and not want to talk but just stare at the TV with the odd mmm at any comment you make?
Today afterwards my boyfriend just started playing on the playstation which i thought was charming!
Does anyone have similar experiences?
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See thats more like it
If it's during the day, then we just cuddle and talk.
Yeah i know what you mean, he's not normally like that was just today, didn't offend me as such was just seeing if it's the same sometimes for others, depends on how you feel i suppose and also to some degree how long you have been together. I mean a new relationship your going to lay in each others arms for ages talking etc you know how it is.
Before, during and afterward if you're me.
My boyfriend does it, sometimes I just wanna sleep too so it's all good but sometimes it really annoys me, especially if I am still horny and he insists on rolling over and going to sleep.
I don't blame it on all the hormone stuff though, it's just blokes. Once they've got what they wanted that's it really. I'm not speaking for all guys, there are some genuinely nice ones that want to do everything to make their girl happy and satisfied, but I never seem to go for those ones...
Yep there is some indeed, but I agree that some blokes, maybe even most, once they are done, they are done and some are even selfish to the point that if they get theirs they don't even care if their girl got hers...
Same here mate, sometimes I don't even get mine, getting hers is more important, but unfortunatly there is guys like that out there... they should stick to wanking imo...
Oh he definitely makes sure i get lots of pleasure that is very important to him, i'm just talking about afterwards, sometimes i need a little bit of attention but suppose you cant have everything!
You can have everything, as I said I never get tired after sex... ever...
True, but what if she never gets hers? I've never orgasmed so I don't think he's too bothered to be honest, think he's given up!
Everybody is different, a few of the guys have already said they are tired afterwards, and i must admit afterwards you can be hot and sticky and a hug can be the last thing you want at that point.
Ah, sorry to hear that... I wouldn't have given up tho, but then again I never had the problem...
Yeah he's never had the problem either, and he's by far the best I've ever been with, but it seems nothing's good enough!