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erections while dancing
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The title says it all really, I was wondering what everyones opinion (male or female) is of this.
OK so heres the scenario: you're at a club dancing and kissing a guy and then you feel it...a huge erection.
Personally I find it really flattering and sexy, it doesn't put me off at all. Talking to my friends though (over a bottle of wine last night) it seems quite a few would find it icky and would be put off.
So my question is how do you girls/guys feel when a guy gets an erection when you're kissing/dancing and what is like being the guy in this situation?
OK so heres the scenario: you're at a club dancing and kissing a guy and then you feel it...a huge erection.
Personally I find it really flattering and sexy, it doesn't put me off at all. Talking to my friends though (over a bottle of wine last night) it seems quite a few would find it icky and would be put off.
So my question is how do you girls/guys feel when a guy gets an erection when you're kissing/dancing and what is like being the guy in this situation?
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But then again iv never been there.
:thumb:
Something that happened to me last Friday there. I just had to pull away from there and avoid him for the rest of the night.
If find it a tad embarassing. But meh, it happens. Just hope the club is plenty dark.
:yuck:
Yep, I wasn't really talking about a random guy in a nightclub that would be quite weird. My example was someone I know but havn't had sex with...yet! I loved it because it let me know how much he wants me, I've decided to make him wait a little while before I give in to him because I do really like him and don't want to rush it.
So this brings me to my next question:
How long do you guys think its ok for me to ask him to wait? He knows I like him and I do want to have sex with him but I need to know I'm not gonna end up just a shag and nothing else, but its early days for me to have a talk about our 'relationship'. Oooo the perils of life as a singleton! x
They're all gay, so they don't have that sort of trouble:p
If a girl is going to bump and grind with a lad he's going to get a hard-on, its not icky. If she doesn't like it she shouldn't be a pricktease.
Just 90% of them.
Cheers mate!
I know it was a stupid question and that I should wait till I'm ready, I'm not a virgin or anything so its not like I'm not ready to have sex its just I don't know whether I'm ready to have sex with him, but I don't want him to be scared off if I make him wait a bit.
:yes: ^so true^
and I also agree with Kermit when he says that a girl shouldn't be a pricktease if she doesn't like a guy having an erection when so close to her.
A) He's an extremely horny guy that hasn't had sex in about 5 years
He's injected a form of genetal steroid with the hopes of getting layed at / after the club
or
C) He's dancing with a nakid Olsen twin?
But seriously, erections in public mean that a guy is just in the 'mood' to the Nth degree. A bit pervy I'd say :S