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Total Hurt - Aimed at girls
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On the on-going shit I seem to be taken ( this is aimed at girls ) I BIKED to see my girlfriend after work, it takes me just under an hour to get there and I only get to see her for 10 minutes when im walking her home, and it takes just over an hour back cos its very hilly..so overall 2 n a half hours biking, 10 minutes seeing her..the first words I got were "why the fuck are you here"..nice eh..girls..if this happened to you, what would you say if your bf turned up like I did?
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I use the being very open technique, and I recently met a girl who uses it as well. If somethings not right, then ditch signs and subliminal crap an tell in her face: THIS IS NOT OK, LADY!
If she's like that, I'd respond, "I just biked after a hard work day 1 hour to your place and all I get is a 'why the fuck am I here?'. I think you could re-think about what you just said."
If she does not apologize I turn 180° and drive off.
IMHO: If you don't say what's up, don't expect her regretting or apologizing.
If it was said angrily, then you have a right to be upset, but she might have meant it as a "omg I wasn't expecting you" type thing, in which case you're overreacting.
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Agreed.
What a guy won't do for a shag, huh?
Had she said something like, Wow, what are you doing here, really changes the tone in just words and I could have seen the surprise in there.
Unless she is tacky and vulguar all the time.
Sweetie I mean this in the nicest possible way, but please type proper words. Shortened word won't go down well. Basically because it's nippy.
If my partner cycled that far I'd pull them inside, give them a shower, a backrub and plenty of affection... But that's me. It depends on the circumstances really...
That's what she should have done too :thumb:
Im lost..:(
I concur...!
I agree. Or you could go see her and beat her up :chin: I'm sure you will feel a whole lot better my friend.
If she's a bitch take her to a kennel...............