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Transmission of STDs
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Since I went on the pill I've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend, but either he's been pulling out or putting a condom on for the big event.
He's not happy with cumming inside me because of the risk of STDs, however I'm fairly sure that a lot of them are caught via contact with the penis in the first place or will also be contained in precum, i.e. both can be caught without him having to cum.
Anybody know for certain? I'm 99% sure I'm clear, although I think we should both get tested for peace of mind, and I think we'd both prefer to be able to forgo the condoms, but I don't want to push him into it as he obviously isn't comfy with that.
He's not happy with cumming inside me because of the risk of STDs, however I'm fairly sure that a lot of them are caught via contact with the penis in the first place or will also be contained in precum, i.e. both can be caught without him having to cum.
Anybody know for certain? I'm 99% sure I'm clear, although I think we should both get tested for peace of mind, and I think we'd both prefer to be able to forgo the condoms, but I don't want to push him into it as he obviously isn't comfy with that.
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So if you give him a blow job without a condom, you could get an infection, when ever you have any sort of penetrative sex, whether he ejactualates inside you or out, there is risk of STI.
Wear condoms all the time until your both tested.
You can still get things like Herpes, Pubic Lice and other nicities just from rubbing against each other.
But yes, just him being inside you is enough to give you an STI if he is carrying one. Pre-cum will carry STIs if he has an STI.
It's also useful to remember than STIs can be transferred through unprotected oral sex, in particular herpes and gonorrhea.
Probably best to get yourselves tested.