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do it for the good of mankind
yup, thats her. and my bf in need of a haircut :rolleyes:
just spoke to him about all this. maybe i wasnt clear before, but he wasnt taking her down the pub regularly, he went in once and she was there. he wasnt even sure who she was at first!
i asked him when hes going to the pub again with her, and he said 'wtf?? shes 15 ffs. i dont hang about with her and i dont wanna. god, shes prob too busy doing her homework to go out anyway'
i said i was uncomfortable with him being friends with her, but he said he would hardly call it "friends". shes just a wee lassie with cool music tastes.
im accepting that. theres no way he would EVER EVER do anything to hurt me, he thinks im totally overreacting, and said im the one for him, blah blah. he kept repeating 'shes FIFTEEN!! just a wee lassie!!' so i guess hes saying stop being a fandan, no way would i ever go there.
im still not entirely comfortable with them speaking and whatnot, but i cant force him not to, cos thats just daft, and not the kinda gf i am tbh.
so yeah. will just have to stop being daft and get on with it. and if i see her in the pub TAKE HER DOWN HARD.
She still needs to take her down to Chinatown.
aye indeed! there will be Big Trouble In Little China the night i see her!!
I'm not going to miss this for the world *adds little girl to Friends List*
Im thinking jailbait three times over :yes:
Well if you go for the theory people are attracted to people that look like themselves no wonder she fancies him - they could be rother and sister based on that pic
Maybe if your boyfriend changes his look a bit she'll lose interest
hah, fat chance of that! i asked him to trim - TRIM - his hair cos its getting a bit mental. and he wouldnt speak to me for half an hour. :grump:
hahah, nah, wouldnt wanna him to change tbh, i like my men long haired, pierced and different than all the other tits out there. 'distressed' ripped jeans, stripey ben sherman shirt, highlighted designer mullet, etc :sour:
Hmm.. well maybe you should take comfort that it's probabaly not your boyfriend's fault
He can't help it if he looks like a 15 year old girl ... :razz:
But seriously didn't you notice how much alike they look?
I think it's quite natural to have strong feelings to someone that reminds you of yourself .. take a look inthe streets and see how many couples look alike - it's scarey when you start looking.