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He's driving me mad!
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My boyfriend recently moved in (about a month ago) and I am so stressed out right now. I dont honestly think that we were going out long enough before making this big a commitment. We have aruguments every bloody day.
Most of it is over stupid things and we end up not talking to each other. The problem is I really dont love him even though he says he loves me all the time. Half of me thinks I will love him, given time but I'm not so sure.
He does seem so lazy sometimes, and he can be a bit immature.
If he does decide to leave, or if I tell him to move out then he has to move back to France, where his parents live, and I would miss him.
What should I do??
Most of it is over stupid things and we end up not talking to each other. The problem is I really dont love him even though he says he loves me all the time. Half of me thinks I will love him, given time but I'm not so sure.
He does seem so lazy sometimes, and he can be a bit immature.
If he does decide to leave, or if I tell him to move out then he has to move back to France, where his parents live, and I would miss him.
What should I do??
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Maybe your personal space is being invaded a little to much? Perhaps youve decided to move in together to early on
you really should have waited till you knew you loved him before moving in together. What if it never happens? then what will you do? How long are you going to give it?
I think we do spend too much time together as he hasnt found a job yet, and although I have told him he needs to find one, I do all the work helping him search for jobs, he can be a bit lazy.
I am lost for what to do
maybe he can move out and then see where you go from there.
You can learn to love someone, but how long are you going to wait? 10 minutes? 10 years? Till you die?
If things aren't right, you need to change them. If that involves booting blokey into touch then that's what you've got to do.
At least you can say you tried if it doesn't work, but you never know- things could get better with the both of you.
You always learn alot about some one when you live with them.
Good luck, and if its meant to be sure you will work things out.