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what/where would you like to do/go on your 3rd date.?
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Hi all,
Sorry i guess this has been asked before but couldn't find anything on the search that answered my question. I'm looking for some ideas on what and where i can take someone for a 3rd date. There's bugger all to do really in Portsmouth, and neither of us can think of anything to do. The only places we could come up with are Ice-skating, cinema (but nothing we want to see), bowling (but she says shes no good so doesn't want to do that). There are a few nice places we can go for a walk but not during the week.
anyway to those that can think of a few ideas thanks.
Story so far.
I've been using some of the singles site for a few months now and didn't have much luck, untill i started talking to this 23yr old girl. We met up on Saturday for the first time after talking on MSN and txt for about a month. Was a simple date, we met up at a pub halfway between out houses. had lunch and coffee. and just chatted. Ended up with the both of us getting new piecring (her Turgas, and my other nipple).
We then met up again round mine last night, put on a film to watch and we talked the whole way through it (4times) till about 2am this morning.
Sorry i guess this has been asked before but couldn't find anything on the search that answered my question. I'm looking for some ideas on what and where i can take someone for a 3rd date. There's bugger all to do really in Portsmouth, and neither of us can think of anything to do. The only places we could come up with are Ice-skating, cinema (but nothing we want to see), bowling (but she says shes no good so doesn't want to do that). There are a few nice places we can go for a walk but not during the week.
anyway to those that can think of a few ideas thanks.
Story so far.
I've been using some of the singles site for a few months now and didn't have much luck, untill i started talking to this 23yr old girl. We met up on Saturday for the first time after talking on MSN and txt for about a month. Was a simple date, we met up at a pub halfway between out houses. had lunch and coffee. and just chatted. Ended up with the both of us getting new piecring (her Turgas, and my other nipple).
We then met up again round mine last night, put on a film to watch and we talked the whole way through it (4times) till about 2am this morning.
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failing that how about a nice meal followed by a few drinks in a classy bar?
Yeah that sounds cool mate
Portsmouth must have a nice ocean front somewhere - take her for a little boat ride, or a meal on a floating resturaunt, all the lights from the boats, the sounds and smell of the sea and the endless horizon can be quite romantic.
Maybe there is a nice park somewhere nearby, plant a tree with her and show her your sensitive side. You could put a plaque on the tree (but nothing too clingy ect) in her honour, and whatever happens afterwards - there's one more tree in the world.
Take her to a martial arts starters class. They are generally enough to make you sweat without pushing you too hard. Watching each other do physical activity will only attract good attention to your bodies and the pheremones from your sweat will have you ripping each others clothes off in no time. Its a very fun thing and you can both pick up a few useful skills for the rest of your life - and showing her that you want to foster her ability to look after herself is quite sweet.
Grr I wish my bf was romantic
rofl.
If it's evenings you have to work with at the moment then I agree with the theatre suggestion, maybe have a bite to eat beforehand or a drink afterwards. Romantic walks are still nice at night, and especially when it's cold and you're all bundled up, holding hands etc. Or you could go ice skating (which could be embarassing), bowling, a laser-quest type place, dance class, art exhibition. Check you local entertainment/arts listings, there could be something really random and one-off that you'd both love!
There's a lot of pressure to be original when it comes to "dating", but by the third date you [probably] know she likes you and are fairly comfortable in one another's company. It'd be fine to invite her round again to watch a film, or just go out to a casual restaurant to chat and maybe try some new and interesting food together! I don't know Portsmouth so I can't be more specific, but there must be loads to do once you scratch the surface!
Have fun.
I'm planning a romantic weekend away somewhere for the two of us towards the end of the month or next month but at the moment were taking it easy for now. Thinking of somewhere in devon or dorset, where we can just wonder around. have a nice meal and enjoy each others company without having to worry about the rest of the world.
There's little more fun than cottaging
Aw she's so lucky, I'm really jealous. :grump:
People lets just spare a the singletons this valentines! :crying: