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I know its fine to forget an anneversary or a holiday or something and thats fine. I'm fine with that. My only other relationship, he couldn't remember a damn thing. I've learned to not care. People forget. But what if they don't care. I told the man, hey, we've been together x amount of time, the first time I've ever mentioned how long we've been together, he's like, ok, so what? How am I supposed to take that...
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Some guys don't care much about date and some, like me sometimes, just forget anniversary, birthday and stuff...
But If the amount of time I have been in a relationship is mention I still care tho...
Also sometimes man can care even so they don't seem like caring a lot...
Basically not too sure how you should take it, it depends on personality and stuff...
What a help I am :yeees:
I don't actually know anyone who would forget a birthday of someone close to them. I remember all family and friends birthdays. I would be very surprised if my girlfriend forgot mine.
As for annaversaries. I know some guys don't care, but again, I don't see how you can forget unless you never talk about it.
In this case I wouldn't take it personally that he doesn't remember. I would be a little annoyed that he didn't care, more for the fact that you obvoiusly do, and he should at least acknowledge that, even if it's not his thing.
As for anniversaries, I think it should be less about putting emphasis on a particular length of time, and more about being nice as you go along.