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Confused
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Been with my boyf for 2 years and a half, we moved in together and brought a flat year and half ago. Things have got boring between us, loads of arguments, never having any money, no sex life, he never does anything to help around the flat, we hardly talk to each other and when we do we argue. Been thinking loads recently, not sure if i wanna be with him anymore. I miss being able to do my own thing, my freedom, seeing mates etc. Stayed at my mums last weekend and loved it, it was good having time away from him but made me think. We are selling our flat and moving back home to have time apart, but dont know if this will split us up becuase his dad lives 30miles away from my mum. Just dont wanna split up with him and then realise it was a big mistake, as they say grass is greener on the other side. Anyone else ben in this position before? We did u do? Do u think time apart for a bit wil sort my head out? Went round my exs one night last weekend too, just to see him and for a chat :chin:
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If your not happy then don't do it. Is it possible you could find a place on your own while your waiting for the place to sell? It may be tough, it usually is, but its not worth you feeling like crap over.
i've been through this myself and i know it is easier said than done, however for both of your sakes it has to be done.
wish you all the best.
*sighs* doesnt know where morals have gone these days
yep seems like the more we "evolve" the more morals go down the toilet...
It's sad really... Even in love there is no respect anymore, no honesty...
He is a lucky man...
You really think a really think a relationship that is not based on honesty is going to last?
Do him a favor and leave him...
(in case you can't tell - i was being SARCASTIC)
Nah, no way it is. Hate to say it, but we did.
Either you can live with someone, or you can't. If you can't then the relationship will die. That's life.
To tell the truth, I think the fact that you're selling up and moving out kinda shows you both know its dead in the water.