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What does it feel like part 2..

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Sorry all,

just followin on from the first question, do you think sex and self confidence are linked?

Does having sex increase your confidence in yourself? :yum:

Cheers

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Surely confidence has nothing to do with what sex feels like. :\

    And no, fucking does not make me feel more confident, personally.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    "like warm apple pie..............."
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It works the other way. Confidence will make you better in bed.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i agree. just like anything else if you're unsure of yourself and not confident then you're more likely to be bad in bed.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    0range wrote:
    Sorry all,

    just followin on from the first question, do you think sex and self confidence are linked?

    Does having sex increase your confidence in yourself? :yum:

    Cheers

    are you going to answert your own question?
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    Dr PirateDr Pirate Posts: 8,303 Legendary Poster
    most of the time, sex makes me feel worse about myself.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dr Pirate wrote:
    most of the time, sex makes me feel worse about myself.

    'cos you make the girls cry? :(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote:
    'cos you make the girls cry? :(

    :lol: you nearly made me spill my piping hot coffee on myself by reading that.
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    Dr PirateDr Pirate Posts: 8,303 Legendary Poster
    Teagan wrote:
    'cos you make the girls cry? :(
    Yes damnit! how did you ever figure that out!?

    :yeees:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Getting laid certainly increases your confidence when approatching women makes you that bit more chearfull and charming.

    Confidence in the bedroom is easy to fake, if your not feeling it, conidence when trying to get someone there isnt,
    Or at least thats what I find in my limited and bitter experience
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I definately think they are linked, once you have sex as in just lost your virginity, then you would perhaps be a lot more confident to flirt around boys (obviously when u r single again!)

    Also i dont really think it takes as much time/closeness for u to have sex with the 2nd person then it does to loose your virginty.

    Another thing is that generally, people who have had sex in college are generally the more confident people, maybe because they have had sex, or maybe becase they are more attractive to guys and that is the reason the have had sex.

    So basically i think they are linked, but not sure how!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks for that everyone! :thumb:

    I do really believe the both are linked; it's a bit of a vicious circle, maybe that's just me!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd have to say to be "bad in bed" is like being bad at breathing. Sex is an instict, not an attribute. If you are that anxious about yourself and you shrivel up, just remember, people have been pounding away for thousands of years. It can't be that hard.

    In social situations however I would imagine sexual experience could give you a nip of confidence when it comes around to a sexual topic. I personally have been in the most uncomfortable of situations where my peers would discuss various sexual experiences and encounters. When asked, I would draw out stories of vague, self-induced sexual experiences. Needless to say, my peers were more beside themselves than impressed.
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