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Ring On / Ring Off
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Ever notice people treating you differently when you got a wedding / engagement ring on or off?
We noticed as soon as my friend got married and had a ring when we'd all go out (lads only night) women would hit on him much more
We noticed as soon as my friend got married and had a ring when we'd all go out (lads only night) women would hit on him much more
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yes, if you are reading this, that was a hint
but when i was about 18, one of my friends used to have a fake diamond ring that she wore on her ring finger when she didn't want to be chatted up. it did the trick too. so either the rule is the other way around for girls, of we were so young that potential fellas thought she was once of those mad crazy married really young people and she might drop her current hubby and try to marry them.
Brill! :thumb:
I've also noticed that people still eye up the wife, but then have a look of guilt when they clock the ring.
I think guys do check out a woman's hand for a ring and if they see one they just move on to the next girl instead of wasting their time chatting up someone that's already spoken for..
I reckon girl's see a ring and start flirting cos they either know it is a bit of fun that won't go no where or simply wanna see if they're attractive enough to tempt away a man from his woman
I think the intelligent ones do, but you'd be amazed how many keep trying to chat up women.
maybe they just scared of you kermy
I check for a ring, and then leave them if they have one, some people I know would see the ring as a challenge!
Maybe I should start...!!
and i've always check to see if women have a ring. as dont see the point in chatting someone up if it wont go anywhere because their married.