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age gap again
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Hi
I know the age gap issue has been discussed before but....
There's lots of stuff on here about older guys just out for a young girl etc etc but i'm interested to know what you think of it the other way around - i.e. an older woman going out with a younger guy?? is it different?
I recently got to know a guy 9 years younger than me and we get along so well and I really like him. We cant be together now anyway because of lots of other complications so I'm not asking u guys whether i should get with him, just your opinion on the age thing.
Personally, when i'm chatting to him, my heart is telling me that the age means nothing.. but my brain tells me that it does! I feel like i'm either being stupid (i.e. he's just having a laugh at this sad old person) or being evil (i.e. seducing this innocent young guy)
I know the age gap issue has been discussed before but....
There's lots of stuff on here about older guys just out for a young girl etc etc but i'm interested to know what you think of it the other way around - i.e. an older woman going out with a younger guy?? is it different?
I recently got to know a guy 9 years younger than me and we get along so well and I really like him. We cant be together now anyway because of lots of other complications so I'm not asking u guys whether i should get with him, just your opinion on the age thing.
Personally, when i'm chatting to him, my heart is telling me that the age means nothing.. but my brain tells me that it does! I feel like i'm either being stupid (i.e. he's just having a laugh at this sad old person) or being evil (i.e. seducing this innocent young guy)
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you need to think has he got everything you need for the kind of relationship you want
Try telling that to my mum lol