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Friend...problem!
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Ok, so as some of you will know there was this girl i am friends with and really liked so i asked out, but she said no then gave me a lot of mean reasons which were lies as to why she wouldnt go out with me, instead of just telling me she wasnt attracted to me, which i was prepared for.
Anyway, now she is acting strange towards me. Sinc ei asked her out, she has been nasty to me. I mean she was always nasty and selfish, but not to me before. Now, if i say, "hello, how was uni?" she goes crazy at me talking about how i know nothing of the real world or having a job because i work for my family busines and they dont count. only jobs for other people count as "real" work! this from a girl who has only ever worked for her parents and plans to be a singer when she finishes uni and never have a "real" job!
She is even ignoring emails and text messages, then tells me she is too busy to reply to them when we do eventually speak!
Why is she acting like a bitch, even though im cool with just been friends, which was her idea?
Anyway, now she is acting strange towards me. Sinc ei asked her out, she has been nasty to me. I mean she was always nasty and selfish, but not to me before. Now, if i say, "hello, how was uni?" she goes crazy at me talking about how i know nothing of the real world or having a job because i work for my family busines and they dont count. only jobs for other people count as "real" work! this from a girl who has only ever worked for her parents and plans to be a singer when she finishes uni and never have a "real" job!
She is even ignoring emails and text messages, then tells me she is too busy to reply to them when we do eventually speak!
Why is she acting like a bitch, even though im cool with just been friends, which was her idea?
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btw, just my take on it. why the hell would you ask her out if she's 'nasty and selfish'? i think it's simple what you have to do, forget about her!
and like i said, she wasnt selfish or nasty to me before, just suddenly she has turned like this an di have no idea why? it was all her idea to just be friends.
my take too though - what's the point if that's what she's like?????
Also, sorry that i have just lost one of my few friends and am unhappy about it and wanted advice. i wont bother asking for advice anymore, i will just take the piss out of other people from now on, how about that?
she sounds lovely.
why are you even bothered when according to you she's nasty?!
Surely you all have friends who are just that kind of person? They think about themselves first then other people? I only know like 4 people who are not like that, everyone else is.
Anyway, my views are biased at the moment in how i describe her because of how she is acting, hence why i wanted an impartial opinion.
no funnily enough i don't stay friends with nasty people for very long!!
erm i glance through posts i havnt read, i do look at past pages, where does it say everyone doesnt?
assumption is the mother of all fookups
my advice: give her space.
She gave some ADVICE! That is all i was asking for, a little impartial advice.
Mate, we don't offer you loans.
Have you ever thought of being an adult and actually talking to her, rather than asking strangers who tell you the most obvious advice which clearly is at the end of your nose and being rude?
yes and i gave you some! if she's so nasty don't bother with her. simple as, imo.
Why should she be scared off though? Loads of her friends have asked her out and she has said no and they still been friends after. This is no different, hence why i dont get why she is behaving liek this.
1983, have you ever thought of bot been so retarded? I have tried to talking to her, once she turned me down i was cool with it and was ready to just be friends, she is completely ignoring me hence why i needed advice. the only friends i have who know her are her brother and sister and they dont even know about any of this so strangers in a forum for advice like this was my LAST option!
I'll take that as NOT retarded. Have you ever thought of just listening to people's honesty here, and being adult enough to accept it?
See, we didn't know that you'd already tried. If she's being a prick, then obviously the friendship wasn't that strong in the first place and you should really just move on. End of.
..What? Clearly if it meant SO much to you, you'd not give two shits whether you should ask them about your problems as they've probably spoken to her about why she's giving you the rubber ear. They'd give constructive advice because they know her the best, etc.
Obviously, internet strangers aren't your last option. They're your third last option. Then your friend's siblings, then talking to her until she finally hears you out.
Don't waste your time on her.
exactly.
if someone's mean to you why put up with it through choice?
there are nicer people out there that are actually worth bothering with. :yes:
You think right