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So confused!
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I was out on Friday night for my works xmas night out and we went to a club after. In the club I bumped into my ex who I haven't seen for about 3 years. We got talking and we have arranged to meet up today. Anyway the problem is that my feelings for him have all come rushing back and I know he wants me back. Another problem is that I am already with someone but I think I love him but am not in love with him. I just can't see anything happening with the guy I am with and since it is a long distance relationship it makes it even harder to be with him.
Sorry if this doesn't make a bit of sense but I am so confused. My head has been totally spining all weekend. If anyone has any advise it would be appreciated. Thanks
Sorry if this doesn't make a bit of sense but I am so confused. My head has been totally spining all weekend. If anyone has any advise it would be appreciated. Thanks
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It's easy to be in love with the memories of someone you onced loved. There will be a reason why it didn't work out; focus on that.
You'd be able to make the right decision about a future with your ex if you weren't clouded by the current relationship you are in. First priority has to be your current partner - if things aren't working out how you'd like, then either address it or walk away. Don't look upon your ex as an easy way out - he probably isn't. Bouncing from a relationship you're not 100% happy with straight into a new one(albeit with someone you already know) rarely works. People can change a lot in 3 years, whether for the good or the bad, nobody can answer.
Good luck .