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Let down big time!
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I bought my boyf of 4 years a holiday for his birthday (i wanted something speical) and he threw it back in my face. We have now broken up and i feel fine about the break up but alot of friends and family got invovled when a girl he 'apparently' slept with whilst we were together, came up to me to tell me. Im finding it hard to sleep, eat and i keep crying. I dont understand why because i have accepted the fact that i dont love him or want to be with him-i just feel majorly let down by everyone who knew about what he did and they let me carry on being a mug!
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Glad you've accepted his feelings, id feel so let down if i were u, so i think you're normal!
if he has the tickets contact the travel agents and tell them that you have loast them and want to change a name on one of the tickets aswell,it will probably cost you about £25 to change the name but im sure it will be worth it.
have fun, try to forget about him.
as for the people that knew im not so sure, if they were mutual friends maybe they were just stuck in the middle? i know thats no excuse. also i cant see the point of them telling you now, telling you at the time would have been usefull but...
i would tell them what i thort about the way that they had treated me and see what they had to say
Couldn't agree more. Do not take him back if he says he's sorry - no matter what. If he has the tickets, do what the others here has told you - cancel them immediately.