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i dont cum wazzup

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I have never had sex before, when I masturbate, I dont cum. I am 14 and i know that I have went thru puberty cos I have loadsa pubic hair, my voice has broke and my penis has got larger.
Is it because it aint real, If a girl wanked me or I had sex would I cum then because it is more pleasureful?
I am scared, I really like this Girl but Im afraid if she spreads stories if I dont cum inside her.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it is illegal yong man to be having sex at such at 14 (slap your wrists). I have no idea if its normal or not but don't worry about her spreading the word cause if she cares then she wont.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    As long as you orgasm she can't really tell if you ejected. Just give her a little passion and care and she will never forget.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    but what if she wanks me, that isnt illegal and she will be able to tell

    the thing is, ages ago, i did used to see the mysterious white liquid emerge a few times, i think i have testicular cancer, I get mildly sore down below a few times, that would cause it
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It may be sore because of the wanking. Sex is much more exciting so you should come, besides, it doesn't matter if you dont.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i hope u will b wearing a jonny, so as u will b, if u dont cum, then she dont have to know, just get rid of it quick.
    if i was havin sex and a lad didnt cum, then id prob b relieved, as thats an even less likely risk that i'd bcome pregnant.
    if she cares about u she'll understand, and wont spread rumors, if she does she aint worth the hassle so kick her to the kerb.
    c ya love helly
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Helly, if a guy doesn't climax there is still a risk of pregnancy if u didn't use protection.

    This is because of 'pre-cum'.

    ilovesara, as for not cumming, lots of girls might be relieved because it means no premature ejaculation!

    I think u just need to chill more when u have a toss. Try reading some porn and making sure u r in an environment where u will not get caught. Then u can relax more. I think u r maybe 2 tense and that is why u don't cum.

    Good Luck.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i wouldn't worry, its not that importnat, on the next 6 months to a year it will happen, worry if woman spread rumours about the size of your dick then u will really need help from the board!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't worry about it! Relax. If you're all worked up when you are masturbating or having sex then you won't cum. The secret is to relax!!!

    Good luck!!!
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