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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
I have been going clubbing lately and i usually make out with the girl i am dancing with.

There have been a few times where i have attempted to go under, but they didnt want to, so i didnt do it (im not the sort to force it on). anyways there have been a few girls who i could tell wouldnt mind.... anyways i havent done it yet, mainly coz i was a bit embarresed coz it was public place.

is there anything i should know/do differently in a public place so that i wont have everyone staring????

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know I am a bit of an old fart. But what is it with people wanting 'to finger' in a public place.

    Perhaps I am missing the point, but why???

    It sounds very seedy, and highly likely to get you into trouble with either the bouncers or the law. Remember there is such a thing as 'indecent exposure', as to whether this would be classified i don't know, but it probably should be. -

    Girls, if you want to do this in public, the only thing you are likely to get felt, is your collar!! - by the 'old bill'.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, derbs, I hate to say that I've done it myself and I guess it is kinda a turn on. A bit. Not like right out on the dancefloor. Tacky. There's always an accessible amplifier nearby, or an empty table in the corner which still have the same 'omigod we shouldn't be doing this' element and a lot less of the 'please you honour it wasn't indecent' element. Avoid busy places at all costs. Believe me.

    *|* Chica *|*


    Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif"&gt;

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi Chica, just my luck, went clubbing on friday for the first time in years - crutches and all, sat on the amplifier - didn't see anyone with sticky fingers though!!!

    The only 'omigod' bit though was the bloody pain from my sodding back!!!
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; derby
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    u obviously wernt looking hard enough derby! its easy to hide,against a wall, in a corner.
    i bet ya there was peeps near having a gr8 time, getting up 2 naughty buisness!
    c ya love helen
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree wi Helly!Well i dont c wot all the bloody fuss is about! Wots wrong wi gettin poked in a club? Ma boyfriends done it 2 me and nobody stares or cares at all coz they're all busy either dancin, winchin or doin something similar themselves. So if folk want 2 do that in a club, bloody leave them 2 it!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    u go girl, i think we need to stand up 4 our rights as to havin a good time in a club,and thats not just with the alcohol and dancin, as u can c!
    theres nout wrong with it, if u cant c then whats the prob.
    i didnt think people did it in clubs, untill i had 'it done',and i spoke 2 others, and they obviously were.
    all those who r saying its sick, and how do u manage it, should have a go!!! go on live alittle!
    c ya love helly
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OK girls, sory i've reconsidered, I've asked mrs derby, she's up for it.

    Because I can't bend, it means she will have to stand on a podium or an amp. Hopefully as you say nobody will notice. If they do, I'll just blame you all <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    derby
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im afraid to say that might b a bit obvious derby! try sitting down, might b easier and a little more discreat!
    i feel weird giving u advice!!
    c ya have fun
    love ya helly
    ps dont tell mrs derby, make it a nice surprise!!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanx 4 the advise helly.
    Unfortunately mrs derby was reading your reply, so ruined the surprize.

    She says had i forgot we were now married.
    And didn't u know that when that happens it means u stop having sex <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    regards
    me & mrs derby
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    god, i was againt marrage anyway(4 me), but i definately aint doin it now if it means fun things like that stop!!
    how boring!?!
    c u 4 now love helen
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i reckon the reason people do this is because they want to be feel dangerous, the danger of being caught, it can be a real turn on! or there just plain gagging for it!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by chrishot4u:
    or there just plain gagging for it!

    God how I hate that phrase. lol

    J9


    [This message has been edited by j9j9 (edited 05-10-2000).]
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