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She does look at me when she walks or I walk, though I ain't t getting the smile too much.
If I thought I had a chance I'd be in there. Just the uncertainity. I'll speak to her eventully, probably mees it up mind but you know.
You may take your own drinks in, but she won't know that, and no-one else will pay any attention to it anyway.
Go to the kitchen and talk to one or two other members of her department. Never does any harm, and is another way in.
Remember, it is not a race. Everything doesn't have to be done today, but at the same time you shouldn't just keep on putting things off. The good thing is that she is going to be there every day, so you have one less thing to worry about.
if you are going to intend to make it subtle, then theres no point cause she might never even notice you
If you just go for it in a modern office you can actually be done for sexual harrasment, so you are better to be careful and develop things.
I go to the kitchen at work and put the milk in before I add the water for my tea. Nine times out of ten there is someone else there, and I end up asking them if they want the milk. So many conversations have started with something as simple as that. It is all about creating openings...
Ok saying all that anyone got some advise for me on my work situation? The office i work at is very open about everything, we'd have to be very carefull if anyone new started. We're always talking about sex and other things, and borrowing each others porn (the girls are the worst for the sex talk and porn). a few months back my wife walked out, and i've made a few fuck buddies. One of the girls at work (girl? shes 36) has since been asking to borrow my porn and give me details on what i've been doing. shes now dumped her bf "he's boring, all he want to do is play chess or talk". She's now saying that she want to have a bit of fun like me and have no strings sex. She quite sexy looking and i'd love to help her out with that, only problem is not sure if she's just flirting or wants more and shes also one of the 3 managers in the office (only 14 ppl in our office). what do you think?
yesterday!! My team went out fr the Xmas lunch and drinks. I went with them and had a few to drink. I wasn't pissed but was a bit merry and a lot more confident by the time I headed back up to the office to get my stuff. Now she had been in a little office all day doing some important work, she was stil there when I came back, she had been there all day. So I found a tin of chocloates that our team had, knocked ont he door, went in , introduced myself and offered her some chocolate. We had a bit of a convo and we shook hands, she was really nice. She said she'd introduce me to her team and I said I would buy her a drink at the next office next week.
Things is, she also said "I'm sweet". Now I know here that can mean nice but young and stuff, like not serious so I don't know.
But I talked to her at least.
I also intorduced myself to another member in her team. I thought later by doing that it makes it less obvious I am just intereested in her, coz women don't like it whne you are really obvious you fancy them???
Juts gotta figure out what i do now!! eeekkk!! lol
Just kinda nerve racking though *embrassed*. I will try.
You also did well by talking to another member of her team. Just build it up nice and slowly now, and see how things develop.
Its hard to take my eyes off her today though she is looking soooo gorgeous.
You have now made sure that you come across as a really decent guy, and any women in that department are probably going on about you now (and probably in your department too)! By the sound of things you don't need any help now, as you are (hopefully) already on the path to success.
Just gotta hope the next time a convo comes round I' won't come across as a babbling idiot.
She mentione dher little boy and how her and the woman in my team went to college then lived togther and now work in same office and how they both have kids and all grown up they are.
she is busy alot though, could tell when she was directing me to leave in a subtle way.
so no idea what she thinks of me.
Arrghh I'm just not good at this!
Nah Military Manouvers would be easier compared to attracting the oppisite sex (or same sex if thats what you like)
I would have to agree.