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have you ever stolen someone elses partner?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Spliffie wrote:
    It's a free market. Unless you're stealing to get at someone then there isn't any great moral problem.

    Oh no! That makes me a bad person in your eyes? Here I stand, morrally judged in Spliffie's eyes... Well, you'd be right, I've been both horrid and wonderful at times; these days I tend to take the middle ground.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Silverberg wrote:
    No, and I don't intend to, i've been on the receiving end.

    Me too, and it sucks, so I wouldn't do it to someone else.

    To be honest though, even if I was the sort of person to steal someone's girlfriend, I don't think I would be comfortable with a girl who would do that to them. If they did it to them then the chances are they'll do that to me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes, and yes.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nicebutdim23 wrote:
    yes, and yes.
    How could you? :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote:
    Oh no! That makes me a bad person in your eyes? Here I stand, morrally judged in Spliffie's eyes... Well, you'd be right, I've been both horrid and wonderful at times; these days I tend to take the middle ground.

    lol...well i personally wouldn't make a moral judgement whatever your reason.

    As Voltaire said...i have no morals, yet i am a very moral person :cool: .
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes I have, and no I didn't...

    Ilora x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    red_jelly wrote:
    Me too, and it sucks, so I wouldn't do it to someone else.

    To be honest though, even if I was the sort of person to steal someone's girlfriend, I don't think I would be comfortable with a girl who would do that to them. If they did it to them then the chances are they'll do that to me.

    I agree cause, well, someone "tried" to steal my ex but it didnt work, they started spreading stuff n i nearly cried about it, but now i look back and think how stupid she was for trying and how stupid i was for nearly crying for a twat like him.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Stolen implies that it was the third party who did all the work and that the man/woman involved were blindfolded, kidnapped and kicking and screaming against their will and had no intention of playing away etc.

    But to the original poster, no, I haven't 'stolen' anyone's partner, but to coin a phrase, I have borrowed.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    when i say stolen i mean, they were already in a relationship with someone else but ended up going with you
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes, I gathered that. But to use the term 'stolen' implies that it was the Other Person that was the meenie who did all the work, and that the man or woman in the relationship were 100% perfectly happy beforehand, they just got taken away by teh evbil harlot etc.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    scytherchick wrote:
    stolen? Well, he was mine to begin with. Besides, no one can be "stolen" or led atray if they don't want to.

    What she said.
    And no I didn't feel bad.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmmm I never have stolen someone else's partner, but my ex is with someone now and I want him back. Thing is when you steal I feel you have to really have to curb the guilt. I couldn't. Its happened to me, ( my partner was stolen from me) and it was devestating. So how could I do it to someone else?

    But sometimes its just not that simple, which is what I am experincing at the moe.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    chan-chan wrote:
    Hmmm I never have stolen someone else's partner, but my ex is with someone now and I want him back. Thing is when you steal I feel you have to really have to curb the guilt. I couldn't. Its happened to me, ( my partner was stolen from me) and it was devestating. So how could I do it to someone else?

    But sometimes its just not that simple, which is what I am experincing at the moe.

    There's no need to feel guilt. If you got him back, it would be because he felt happier with you - so there's no wrong-doing WHATSOEVER.

    Ultimately, it'd be his choice on what made him happier...so there is absolutely nothing wrong with this.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Little_one wrote:
    No...


    ditto xx
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