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Taking Someone's V Plates
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If someone asked you to be their first would you see that as a compliment or like too much responsability?
Also do you find the idea of being someone's very first a turn?
To answer my own question I do think it's a bit of a turn on!!
Also do you find the idea of being someone's very first a turn?
To answer my own question I do think it's a bit of a turn on!!
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If I ever dated a bloke who was a virgin then of course I'd sleep with them when the time was right, and I'd probably secretly feel quite triumphant. Though I wouldn't make a big deal about it, and I don't know if it'd be a 'turn on' per se, though it's quite a sweet notion.
You should give the same respect to someone who has had 100 partners and one who is a virgin.
edited to say:
As part of a long term relationship, on the other hand, I don't know - I can't see myself getting into a relationship like that, but such things tend to be unpredictable.
Would try not to do my usual dont do that but just help them along a bit, like any one who doesnt have much experience or is going totally wrong lol
It is a pressure and a responsibility but I hope they enjoyed it. they told me they did!!
She said she wasn't sorry about it, think from what she did tell me it was because a lot of her friends at uni were always telling her how good sex was and her ex wouldn't sleep with her.
I feel a bit bad about that one, as it would have been more special for her if she was in a relationship. The other two yeah they were a turn-on.
I must have been great
well im a virgin and i think i'd like my first time to be with a virgin too....you can learn together then!
My first time was with my boyfriend and it was his first time too and its been really fun learning and experimenting together.
... that depends on how you compared to the next man....
he didn't say he was going to!
And obviously cos shes mine. Mine! MINE DAMNIT!) sorry, got carried away there).
On the other hand i really dont want to be crap for her.
I would never do it on a one-night stand but then again i personally think that sex should mean something special so i dont really like the idea of one-night stands. That could change i guess.
Then the bastard broke my heart and I wondered what I unleashed upon the world!
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i personally would like my first time to be with another virgin though.. that way we both dont know what we're doing and it wont be as awkward!!! ...although the guy im kinda with at the moment isnt a virgin and i wouldnt mind being with him we'll see
That was a sarcastic joke. See "plates" is like license plates, and those expire and I thought V-plates was the most retarded term I had ever heard so I thought I shall post a dumb comment about it. I know your virginity does not expire.
No, it's like L-Plates. For learning to drive with, and they don't expire. but they do get: