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Cant Make Her Orgasm !!! :(
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Well, ive been with my g/f for 14 months now and shes told me that she hasn't had one since weve been together through penetration or being fingured 
:banghead: .
Weve tried different positions, clit rubbing while im doing it, varying speeds & angles etc etc but nothing. She says it feels nice but its kinda shattered my confidence a bit and makes me feel bad when she and I hear her mates saying how they were shaking all over and how their eyesight goes fuzzy.
Are there other girls like this or guys have you had this problem with your partners and if so did/have/ how did you get them to orgasm or is my g/f destined to be orgasmless .
Help & Input appreciated
:banghead: .Weve tried different positions, clit rubbing while im doing it, varying speeds & angles etc etc but nothing. She says it feels nice but its kinda shattered my confidence a bit and makes me feel bad when she and I hear her mates saying how they were shaking all over and how their eyesight goes fuzzy.
Are there other girls like this or guys have you had this problem with your partners and if so did/have/ how did you get them to orgasm or is my g/f destined to be orgasmless
.Help & Input appreciated
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Has she had an orgasm through masturbation or through oral sex?
Doesn't always happen. Unfortunately.
Maybe she could give you more guidance when you're down there, either during oral or when you're fingering her. If she knows what doesn't feel good (enough) then I assume she knows what does.
Has she ever had an orgasm at all (not just a "big" one)? If not, then maybe she needs to get to know her own body a bit better, before she can achieve optimum satisfaction with you.
Variety, as they say, is the spice of life, treat her body with as many different sensations as possible; hard, soft, fast, slow, hot, cold... and most of all, relax, and enjoy each other
She needs to know how to pleasure herself before expecting you to know how to pleasure her ya see.
try looking for someother erogenous zones. the qickest and easiest way for someone else to bring me to orgasm is to hold me down, face down and bite me. My 'spot' is where the top of my bum meets the bottom of my back (too much info?), but there are others and she might have 'em too- rather than the usuall lips-nipples-vagina&clit combo.
Good luck
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So either we have to find a time when no one else is in the house or we could go away from the weekend and then hopefully I will relax and just let myself go.
I'm not bloody surprised. That doesn't happen in anything other than porno, I'm afraid. I suspect her friends are bullshitting her.
Id suggest a vibrator.
Well, yeah, but you know what I mean.
I understood what you meant, it is unrealistic for her to expect an orgasm where the earth moved and her eyes went fuzzy straight away, it takes time and practice. Also not everyone experiances an orgasm in the same way.