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hey guys.. well basically i was having sex with my man last night and while i was kissing him- getting into the moment too much i accidently bit his shoulder -quite hard!- he sed it hurt..but he likes it? now whenever we have sex he likes me 2 sorta nibble on his shoulder bladez- when were not having sex it makes him really hard when i do this also- i mean obviously its a good thing if its turning him on- but i mean from a guys point of view how many of you actualy find this a turn on- even if its hurtin you?. Oh and 1 more thing, embarrassin situation! 
we were asleep in his bed the other night and abot 3 of his mates were all kinda crashed out on the floor. i was woken up earlly hours by him all kissing on me n stuff when i was half asleep- anywayzzzz, we ended up having sex, i was trying to b as quiet as possible when one of his mates said "im tryin 2 sleep n i cant do that with all that moanin n groanin goin on. i was sooo embaressed. the weird thing is my man wanted to carry on- i refused so we jut went downstairs then he told me that it turned him on that his friend could hear us... is that normal or not? cos i was pretty damn embarrassed myself..along with the biting shoulders thing, basically is my man a freak???? ta!
we were asleep in his bed the other night and abot 3 of his mates were all kinda crashed out on the floor. i was woken up earlly hours by him all kissing on me n stuff when i was half asleep- anywayzzzz, we ended up having sex, i was trying to b as quiet as possible when one of his mates said "im tryin 2 sleep n i cant do that with all that moanin n groanin goin on. i was sooo embaressed. the weird thing is my man wanted to carry on- i refused so we jut went downstairs then he told me that it turned him on that his friend could hear us... is that normal or not? cos i was pretty damn embarrassed myself..along with the biting shoulders thing, basically is my man a freak???? ta! 0
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Blokes i've been with before have liked being bitten, and wanted to have sex with their mates either watching or "sleeping", its not a big deal!
Just have fun, obviously if u dont wanna do it then just tell him and he should respect that!
It's nothing weird though, as others have said, and neither is biting imo. Just do the things you feel comfortable with, and relax...he's not a freak. Well he is, but in the best possible way
i could never do it,i would only enjoy intimacy if it was private!! you ought to be careful with it though....boys are horny bastards!
Being an exhibitionist is normal.
You'll get a good idea of what he likes by how he kisses and holds you.
Lmao, I know. I love Ballerina and all, but when she answers to some of these threads I'm like..ehh?! You haven't experienced it, lil britches.
im a very shy person
I was as well when I was 15, I didn't have my first kiss until I was 17. And now I'm loud and proud and my legs are always over my head.
Haha, jk. No, really the idea of someone being in the same room while shagging makes it really exciting. I wouldn't have dreamt of it a good 7 years ago, but now..wowee.
but i guess im still young....though i sometimes feel ahead of my time
Ahh, I don't mean to be rude, but I get that vibe from you too.
I think once you become a little more familiar sexually, you'd let go of your inhibitions and enjoy it much more.
Not advocating udnerage sex, though.
Sex where you can get caught is the bestest.
A lot of people can be shy but when it comes to sex it's a different story. Well from person experience anyways
I did enjoy it, although when she hit the same spots again and again, after awhile it did just hurt lol and it was quite unsightly afterwards but nah its all normal.