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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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Me and my girl have been together 2 years, and sex is beginning to be same old story. We want to liven things up a bit. Done anal before and will do again. Did have her tie my hands up and give me a blowjob, then ride me home. we both agreed that was amazing! :crazyeyes Don't really like idea of foods over body as it means showering straight away afterwards! :no:

Any ideas appreciated!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ~*Girl_Interrupted*~ wrote:
    Dressing up? Roleplay?

    im here to fix your boiler
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't particularly think dressing up would do it for me.

    We've thought about roleplay. What roleplay would you suggest? One was if we were out, she would sit at the bar and we'd pretend we didn't know each other, i'd go chat her up and take her home.

    Problem is it's a good half hour to the nearest club :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think theres not much point in doing it if you dont really feel it and you need suggestions. Just try and think what youd REALLY like to do, and talk with your girlfriend about it and find out what SHE would really like to do, with the express rule - no judgements, ridiculing or anything. You need to be able to be open.
    The stuff I like to do isnt likely to be the stuff youd like to do so theres not much point giving tips.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    We're open to suggestions. If we don't like it, we won't try it. Just running out of ideas, so thought suggestions of what others like to do may make something spring to mind :chin:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well what have you tried?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    role reversal?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    We've tried anal, which we will do again. Tried hands being tied up and that was fun, doing that again along with blindfolding. Otherwise, not alot really!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    snafu- wrote:
    role reversal?

    Her with a strp-on and him on all fours? :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Swinging?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    toys

    different locations
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    massage oils.. bondage..etc
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    gimp masks
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    golden showers?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    start to have sex like normal then spit in her face and call her by the wrong name then hold on and see how long you can keep in her.

    seriously, dont do this coz i am not serious.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    69 rimming style
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    adult babies?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why don't you take things outside?!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cheers for all your suggestions! Think i'll take a rain check (Excuse the pun) on golden showers, and the joke one about spitting in her face :hyper:

    Toys already introduced, well, toy, used for double penetration when doing anal :thumb:

    Outside has been tried too, that was fun until we thought we'd been caught :lol:

    Anyways, cheers for the suggestions :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Scat?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    fisting?watching porn together and then do what they are doing
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Felix Da Housecat wrote:
    Scat?

    i once had a lecture that was in the school of computing and technology

    the first slide on the first day of uni was "welcome to SCAT"
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Is she dominant?

    Get her to collar you and boss you about.... or vice versa. Try sex toys, maybe clamps, whips, restraints... But remember that you need to know each others limits and be cautious of them.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm trying to think of something contrived and vaguely witty, but it's just too early.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What about something as simple as a feather? Blindfold your partner (maybe even tie them down a bit if you want to be a tad more wild?) and subject their body to a long, slow session of gentle caressing with a feather ... starting on their neck, thighs etc and working up to their nipples and ... well, wherever else you may like to go ... ;)

    My guess is she'll be gushing in no time ...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote:
    My guess is she'll be gushing in no time ...

    What a lovely image.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thunderstruck wrote:
    What a lovely image.

    Erm .. blushing! Yes, that's it! I meant to say 'blushing'!!! :blush:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote:
    Erm .. blushing! Yes, that's it! I meant to say 'blushing'!!! :blush:
    Nice save :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MrG wrote:
    i once had a lecture that was in the school of computing and technology
    the first slide on the first day of uni was "welcome to SCAT"

    I would have laughed so hard at that hehe!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    rainbow brite wrote:
    golden showers?

    LMAO! :heart:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You should tie her up and put it onto 671 on Sky TV. Then subject her to 2 hours of Cornerstone with Pastor John Hagee. Scream bible references in her face while asking "WHEN THE STORM COMES, WILL YOU BE THE ONE TO BUILD A HOUSE ON A RIVER THAT FLASH FLOODS?"
    I also forget why but bringing the Lord™ into the bedroom really gets my goat (in a purely non sacrificial way)
    Failing that spank her arse, and bite her titties.
    MrStickSez nothing is too far, especially if you are catholic.
    Masturbation is Genocide!
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