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when you should tell people that should know how your feeling because not telling them is getting you in trouble, but if you do tell them you'll probably get moved somewhere else and you get a whole lot more hassle.
I'm having problems at home but if i say anything there could be more problems..
i really don't know what to do....
Help!
I'm having problems at home but if i say anything there could be more problems..
i really don't know what to do....
Help!
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OK, the way im reading it is that you dont want to tell someone something because:
- they should know already
- you think you'll be worse off if you do
Well, really you've got to choose how important it is for the someone to know and whether you trust them enough.Also, think about whether its temporary or not, some things you just gotta drag yourself through.
Without knowing the problem its kinda hard to say... remember this is all anonymous and we wont blab.
Just note this is the internet and other people can read it. Although your family coming across this thread has a low chance, be precatious.
it's hard to say, not knowing all the details really.. but if it's something you should tell them and it's important then i would tell them. people have a habit of finding things out in the end anyway.
Is the current situation bearable? Then you might be better off not risking worse. But if it isn't bearable, maybe taking the risk would be for the best.
Whatever you decide, best of luck.
most of the time imo, it is worth taking the risk and saying something - because at least then things have a chance of changing. if you stay silent - nothing will change.
It's pretty hard to help you hera if you dont give more information, i no it must be hard if you got problems at home but it hard for us to help if you dont be percific.