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What Do Guys Find Romantic/ Sweet

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
I'm just looking for some advive really on what is a romantic thing to do for a guy. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and I love him loads, I know sometimes I don't make him feel v special that's why I want to do something nice for him....just I have no idea what!!! :chin: Has anyone guys or girls done or had something done that they thought was very sweet and made them feel that lil bit extra special????

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, we're all different hon, so what works for me won't work for others.

    Coming home after a long day at work to a nice tea and a nice bottle of wine is what I think is great. The most romantic day I've had was a gtrip to Whitby in February for Valentine's Day, fish and chips, fudge, mulled wine and a long walk along the cliffs, then home to fillet steak, nice wine and hot sex.

    I bet a lot of people think that sounds shite.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ask him what kinda thing he likes and regards as romantic?
  • SkiveSkive No discipline. No morality. No respect. New ForestPosts: 15,193 Skive's The Limit
    Kermit wrote:
    I bet a lot of people think that sounds shite.

    :no:

    That's exactly what I like too. Good food with your favourite drink, especially when it's cooked by your missus is romantic.

    Failing that an evening trip to a seaside resturant/hotel and an activity/walk afterwards.

    I remember getting my ex a balloon trip on her birthday and she loved it. My birthday came round and we went to some fancy resturant down by the docks and then went on to the casino. :thumb:
    Yesterday is history
    Tomorrow is a mystery
    But today is a gift
    That’s why it’s call the present
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would ask but i kind of want to suprise him, but it is hard becuase what men and women find romantic etc are two v diffrent things thats why i need some advice or ideas :) I guess I just want to show him how much I love him and that he is special....I'm not always the most affectionate of people and sometimes can be quite cold :( and I know it upsets him sometimes so I want to do something really nice for him.
  • SkiveSkive No discipline. No morality. No respect. New ForestPosts: 15,193 Skive's The Limit
    You can't go wrong with good food.
    Yesterday is history
    Tomorrow is a mystery
    But today is a gift
    That’s why it’s call the present
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote:
    You can't go wrong with good food.
    so its true? the way to a mans heart is through his stomach? :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ballerina wrote:
    so its true? the way to a mans heart is through his stomach? :p

    Absolutely. I quite like a dvd and a cosy night in though, as good as a boozy night out, praps!
  • SkiveSkive No discipline. No morality. No respect. New ForestPosts: 15,193 Skive's The Limit
    Ballerina wrote:
    so its true? the way to a mans heart is through his stomach? :p

    Well it helps if you've got nice Bristols too! :p

    ...but yes good food always makes me happy.
    Yesterday is history
    Tomorrow is a mystery
    But today is a gift
    That’s why it’s call the present
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just time together, I s'pose. Lazing around.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :no:

    The quickest way to a man's heart is straight through the chest.
    Take me to Whitby :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Can you not get there yourself;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I must be really lame, because what i like is just to be with the person i love a smuch as i can be. Nothing more then that!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote:
    Failing that an evening trip to a seaside resturant/hotel and an activity/walk afterwards.
    I remember my ex took me out to dinner once and we walked along the beach afterwards, with the light from the full moon. It was incredibly romantic.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have made a personalised tee shirt and written/recorded a song for a man before. I have to agree with the food suggestions too.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Firstly I think sweet is a horribly patronising word.

    I dunno. I would let Mrs T cook for me and despite the presence of smoke detectors and insurance policies, I would be slightly reluctant!

    The quickest way to a man's heart is twofold ; via the stomach or via the trousers. Satisfy those two things and you're on to a winner.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The quickest way to a man's heart is twofold ; via the stomach or via the trousers. Satisfy those two things and you're on to a winner.
    hm, i still think the best way is to be yourself first!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Few weeks ago, I cooked him his favourite dinner, and put candles and tea lights everywhere, all over the room for when he came home from work. He thought that was nice.

    Worked a treat!!! :love:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    heya mi bf loves gettin massaged and jus being cuddled up !
    and cud People help me and look at mi post called "Age gap and tellin the truth to your parents?"
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, my boyfriend likes to have his head massaged, and he also likes it when I go over to his with a Greggs and a snowball cake. I'm so cheap. :lol:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1983 wrote:
    go over to his with a Greggs

    Ah, but which one?

    A chicken bake is a bit of class, a cheese and onion pasty not so much;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Romance?

    Meh I don't believe in shit like that, I'll appreciate stuff but I don't buy all that candle lit dinner shit.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Kermit wrote:
    Ah, but which one?

    Chicken softie and a Yum Yum ;p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ballerina wrote:
    hm, i still think the best way is to be yourself first!

    Sadly you have a lot to learn about the male brain, Ballerina.


    Am I alone in thinking that nice, cute and sweet are three of the most horrible words in the English language? Or at least, three of the most patronising ones.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ballerina wrote:
    hm, i still think the best way is to be yourself first!

    Yeah, but if you're wanting to make a special effort you have to make a special effort.

    Tomorrow night I'm going out for a meal, but its a surprise so I don't know where, or with whom. I know its not KFC though...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think mostly what everyone else has said is pretty good. If you want it to be a good night, then just let him see how much you love him. It doesn't have to be expensive, good food, good drink, and entertainment of any description. Saying that, i suprised my guy by getting us tickets for an Al Murray show in reading and a day of shopping and food. It was so nice just to get away (we live in Kent) and have a change of surroundings.
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