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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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i feel a bit embarrased about this, but, when i have sex or i wank, i dont feel any great sensatino at all, i dont find it pleasuring, and if i cum, it seems to jsut ooze out, where as my frineds can basically blow theirs across the room ( so ive heard ) like my friend came in his gf's face, i dunno if i could do that?

is there something wrong with me?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Give it time, and it will come. No pun intended :p. During the bodies development it takes time for everything to get itself sorted out, nothing to worry about.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    why am i taking so long tho? we're both the same age, i dont want to emabarass my self in front of a girl whos like "cum in my face" and im like "ehh..."
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think a girl will ask you to "cum in her face" so don't worry about that :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeh but still, whys it seem so...'unenthusiastic' to reach the outside of my penis?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Arianne wrote:
    I don't think a girl will ask you to "cum in her face" so don't worry about that :)

    There are plenty of women who will, in the midst of passion, will ask their partner that!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    BumbleBee wrote:
    There are plenty of women who will, in the midst of passion, will ask their partner that!
    :eek2: Oh. Ok, then I guess I'm not 'most women' ..

    Anyway, I don't think you should worry about it softworld, as TheShyBoyInTheCorner already said. I don't think I've ever thought "hm, how far can he blow his sperm" when I was with my ex :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Arianne wrote:
    :eek2: Oh. Ok, then I guess I'm not 'most women' ..

    Anyway, I don't think you should worry about it softworld, as TheShyBoyInTheCorner already said. I don't think I've ever thought "hm, how far can he blow his sperm" when I was with my ex :)

    She didn't say most, just plenty. Cum can be very exciting. Anyways, to the original poster, how old are you?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    14 nearly 15 and girls are quite expextant, when i hear my friends i feel im a bit behind
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh god hunny. You are so young. Honesltly, even though thats how the world is turning, sex that young is truley discusting. Perfect example here, the bodies are not grown enough. Don't worry about your friends. Take it at your own pace, your body is doing it too, I doubt your much emoitonally ready for sex either. And as for these "expectant girls" ... egh *shakes head* Do you really want a couple years of fumbling clumsy ackward unsatisfying sex?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well there honestly is no point in having sex till you're ready, and you're not. So no worries :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Your friends are probably lying, all boys lie during school about things like that. I bet most of your mates keep saying "iv got a huge dick" or "12 inches" and stuff. Bunch of lies, iv done it and im pretty sure a lot of guys on here have slightly over-exagerrated the truth too.

    Also some guys shoot their sperm, some guys dribble it out, some guys cant sperm at all! Everyone is different and over the next year or 2 you will probably notice some difference in your "shooting" power.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    just urinate instead-that'll give you some distance!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cristal wrote:
    just urinate instead-that'll give you some distance!

    Classic!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    softworld wrote:
    i feel a bit embarrased about this, but, when i have sex or i wank, i dont feel any great sensatino at all, i dont find it pleasuring, and if i cum, it seems to jsut ooze out, where as my frineds can basically blow theirs across the room ( so ive heard ) like my friend came in his gf's face, i dunno if i could do that?

    is there something wrong with me?

    everyone is different. To some they can cum across the room and some cannot. Your friends may be telling lies they may not be able to cum across the room. Don't worry if you feel like you can't cum across the room. I'm not going to say if i can do that or not( i can guess what everyone is gonna say) but you should not worry.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cheers guys, thanks :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    softworld wrote:
    when i have sex or i wank, i dont feel any great sensatino at all and if i cum, it seems to jsut ooze out
    What colour is it? if it is clear, then it may only be pre-cum - which would explain both aspects
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you wank really often then theres no way you're going to get anywhere near shooting it across the room. If its important to know you can do it, or any of that ego stuff (which everyone needs a boost of every now and then), you could try holding off for a while. But it can get messy when you next cum. This could help the 'sensations' as well cos, like anything, if you keep doing it then the thrill is going to wear off after a while; you may have forgotten what your first orgasm was like. I know i have.
    And, like J said, dont rush to get to orgasm, thats missing the build-up experience and its probably why it doesnt feel as good either.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Arianne wrote:
    I don't think a girl will ask you to "cum in her face" so don't worry about that :)
    Whenever I ask my boyfriend to come on my face (or indeed on my tits) he says no anyway. He thinks it's degrading.

    Sometimes after sex I rub his cum onto my own tits but its not really the same and he always looks grossed out by it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Randomgirl wrote:
    Whenever I ask my boyfriend to come on my face (or indeed on my tits) he says no anyway. He thinks it's degrading.

    Sometimes after sex I rub his cum onto my own tits but its not really the same and he always looks grossed out by it.
    I can kinda understand; in some ways it might make you seem, to him, like a sex object striaght out of a porn movie. Its could that more than anything else, esspecially if he properly values you as a person.Not against it persoanlly, just trying to provide some insight.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Black Emerald wrote:
    I can kinda understand; in some ways it might make you seem, to him, like a sex object striaght out of a porn movie. Its could that more than anything else, esspecially if he properly values you as a person.Not against it persoanlly, just trying to provide some insight.
    Yes I'm sure that's it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Arianne wrote:
    :eek2: Oh. Ok, then I guess I'm not 'most women' ..

    God you're a cold fish aren't you :D

    Seriously original poster, just leave it. So what if the girl's expectant - there are plenty of other girls out there so don't worry. And a lot of girls will not ask you to blow your load on their faces. It's not like porn.

    Though Mrs. T does sometimes :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thunderstruck wrote:
    God you're a cold fish aren't you :D

    So what if the girl's expectant - there are plenty of other girls out there so don't worry. And a lot of girls will not ask you to blow your load on their faces. It's not like porn.
    Even if a girl does ask you to you are well within your rights to say no. It's not a dumpable offense!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    mmm as odd as it will sound, when i fist orgasmed i lvoe the feeling and i basically wank everynight so i could be pretty psycologically dependant, i'll buy a few sleeping pills, then when i feel the urge, i'll take '20minute powernap' and knock back a few sleeping pills. that way next time if i havnt in a while it should be sensual and 'explosive' right?

    its terrible im 14 and im asking this, but its the way societys gone in young people my age. Terrible, oh well, at least i can have a snooze or spend a few hours in Quake 4 nexdt time the urge comes :) no pun intended :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hope everything works to your advantage, theres no guarantee because everybody's bodies are different but the less you masturbate the more there is to come (no pun intended) when you next do.
    Just make sure you dont get addicted to sleeping pills whenever you try and resist wanking... cos thats just frying-pan and fire.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'l ltry not to, cheers everyone for your help and advice
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey, lets keep this thread alive! We can all say 'thanks' and 'no problem' for ages!



    Jokes ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Black Emerald wrote:
    Hey, lets keep this thread alive! We can all say 'thanks' and 'no problem' for ages!



    Jokes ;)
    No probs ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    not that im involved but in the spirit of things ---- no problem
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