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help me fast please any one
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please help me im taking a girl to the pictures tomorrow night and i want to ask her out but i dont know how to please help fast thanks alot
se ya andy
[This message has been edited by penfold (edited 12-09-2000).]
se ya andy
[This message has been edited by penfold (edited 12-09-2000).]
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See how you both get on tomorrow, don't be pushy, don't be creepy, relax, make pleasant conversation. Ask her about herself, get her talking, if she feels comfortable with you, then hopefully you are halfway there.
If all goes well tomorrow, then before she leaves, say something like
"I've had a really nice time, enjoyed your company, perhaps we could do it again soon, if you are interested give me a call, here's my number."
That way she doesn't have to give an immediate answer of yes/no, or embarrasing silences, it doesn't spoil your evening. She has time to think when she is home.
Then just see if she calls, if she hasn't after a week or so, give her a call, ask how she is, friendly chit chat (gentle reminder you are still interested) - see what her response is, let her know you are still intersted, don't be too pushy, if she doesn't want to go out with you, she may well value you being a freind. This keeps your options open for the future,
hope all go's well
regards derby
Don't sound desperate, just be calm. How did you ask her out in the first place, if you're worried about doing it again?
Well obviously don't jump the gun-make sure that you DO have a good time before you ask her! How long have you known each other? Mates? Fancied her and went for it? It'll probably be easier if it's the second one, actually.
Whatever the circumstances are, make sure that b4 and after the movie you don't talk about anything that turns the average girl off. Like, don't start on about you're amazing dribbling technique if she's looking for a snog <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">
If you had an OK time, then probably don't ask her, but make absolute sure you arrange a time to go out again. [The one good thing about film trailers, lots of opportunity to say "that looks good" and you've got round 2!]
If you have a great time together then just get her in a quiet spot, like round the car park <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> and just the use the "What would you think if..." line.
Oh the memories....
It's 1035, the movie's finished.
Did you drop your hand?