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Been Rejected By a girl!
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We were alone, in a club and had been dancing, our friends were busy with some other people so we were alone and I asked her to go out with me on a date, she said;
"No! We cant go out because it would never work. We are friends after all, i dont want to see any one right now because i broke up with my boyfriend only a few months ago. Im very nasty to my boyfriends and completely different person that you wouldnt like. I only go out with Older men anyway so your too young for me. If something was going to happen it would have happened already wouldnt it by now? Like when i was with John, i would have cheated on him with yu wouldnt i if something was to happen."
So im too young, when she has had loads of boyfriends WAY younger then her.
She would have cheated on a guy she was 100% faithful to and told me she would never ever cheat on no matter what.
She is nasty to her boyfriends but all of them fall in Love with her and saty friends afterwards.
She has also gone out with lots of friends who nothing, not even a kiss had happened with and then had a long relationship with them.
Why did she tell me she liked me, which she did and why tell me she would want to go out with me when she was single, if she didnt mean any of it at all??????
"No! We cant go out because it would never work. We are friends after all, i dont want to see any one right now because i broke up with my boyfriend only a few months ago. Im very nasty to my boyfriends and completely different person that you wouldnt like. I only go out with Older men anyway so your too young for me. If something was going to happen it would have happened already wouldnt it by now? Like when i was with John, i would have cheated on him with yu wouldnt i if something was to happen."
So im too young, when she has had loads of boyfriends WAY younger then her.
She would have cheated on a guy she was 100% faithful to and told me she would never ever cheat on no matter what.
She is nasty to her boyfriends but all of them fall in Love with her and saty friends afterwards.
She has also gone out with lots of friends who nothing, not even a kiss had happened with and then had a long relationship with them.
Why did she tell me she liked me, which she did and why tell me she would want to go out with me when she was single, if she didnt mean any of it at all??????
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if she uses her guys just be glad you know what you're dealing with now before its too late
Exactly.
Would you really want that?
Thanks to all of you by the way. your all great and helpful people! i really appreciate it all!
Some people like the thrill of the chase, and lose interest when they catch their prey.
Some people just don't think they deserve anyone nice.
Shit happens.
Most people with attitudes like that go for older guys despite being mentally imature themselves, ive noticed it with quite a few girls.
Just move on and find someone else :thumb:
Anyway, in answer to your question, don't bother with her. If she wanted to go out on a date with you, she'd have said yes straight away. Infact, she may even have asked you first. She sounds manipulative - you are better off without her.
I reckon you should leave it. You tried a year maybe 2 now and still no further forward. I think you should just move on and leave it with her. Then if u guys are ever out again and you pull her then something will happen maybe but don't concentrate on it. Move on, focus on your work and having fun and then hopefully good things will come your way.
Juts move on form the now, and focus on work and stuff and let the girls come to you.
No "think" about it.