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me and my best friend

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
hi my name is nicola and i am 15. i have had 2 serious boyfriends and had sex and stuff with them both. Recently me and my best mate emma seem to be getting closer and i think she wants us to try things together.i am not les or bi but wouldn't mind tryin just for the experiance .......any other girls felt this way ? what did you do ? what was your friendship like after ?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think a lot of people explore their own sexuality at times. If you both feel comfortable with it then its okay. However it is quite a big step to take, so be sure you know what your doing and your happy with it.

    It's easy to start something and then feel out of your depth and not know how to turn back. My advice is to have a good think about your sexuality, and to decide what your happiest doing. There's no right or wrong, it's just what you decide to do.

    Whatever you do, make sure it feels right. Good luck!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just do what you feels comes natually, don't feel pressuered into anything.

    If it happens it happens, just think of what you are doing and if you really want to do it.

    I hope you feel you do the right thing what ever you decide.

    NuttyLad <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi,
    Firstly I agree with what Caliph and Nuttyboy have said.

    Don't know if this helps as well, but I know a high proportion of my female friends have either admitted to one sexual experience with another woman (I don't know whether it was with best friends), or have regular fantasies about it.

    So don't think there is anything unusual in you and emma fancying it.

    As for what they have done together, it tended to involve kissing, carressing, and exploring.

    However, most of them stated that afterwards they did feel a little bit guilty about it, so I don't know whether it might affect your future friendship, particularly if one of you is embarrassed about it.

    kind regards derby.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Let your feeling go the way they want to go.
    If you both feel secure that you want to try each other out, then go ahead, at the end of the day you wont know until youvew tried it will you? one of the best pieces of advice my dad ever gave me was 'try everything once except incest,paedophillia and bestiality, then youll know what you like!' and ive proved him rght since!!
    Just make sure that you both want it, dont feel pressurised into comitting acts that you dont feel right doing, remember no means no.
    and have fun!!
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