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Why Do most Girls Think all Lads are interested in Is Sex?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
Right this really really annoys me, I dont see my g/f alot cos we live like an hour apart and she thinks that I only want to see her for sex etc this really really annoys me because she forgot i might actually want to see her etc, what are you lots views on this?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    why don't you try going to see her and not having sex?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think the main reason y alot of girls think MOST lads r after sex cos they r! i have bin through it and alot of lads in this world r sex mad, and so it makes it alot harder for the decent lads 2 prove that sex isnt all they r after <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Have to agree, goin by most of the ladz i know, or have met, it does seem that they cant hold a decent conversation without bringing the issue of sex up somewhere!!! If u arent like that, she should already know, but try just spending some quality time with her, dont have sex, dont even ask for it, just spend the day together,be couply! It will make ur relationship stronger believe me!! Lxxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe because they ALWAYS talk about it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you mean we think of other things? oh dear. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Now, this may be a cynical view...

    But maybe its because everything we say and everything we do, when we are on a date, is because want to get into her knickers.

    "Her hair reminds me of a warm, safe place
    Where, as a child I'd hide"

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im not saying that ALL guys are after sex, but the majority of guys are. especially teenage guys who are at their peak and dying to forfill their curiosity of the opposite sex. it's only natural.

    i think guys think about sex a lot, or a bit too much for their own good. but at the end of the day, we girls think of sex a lot too, just not as much as guys.

    however, im pretty sure that most guys nowadays are sensitive and actually know how to control their hormones and to treat a woman with a bit of respect. the boards here shows that. (well, some of them.) <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    next time you are talking to your girlfriend. just tell her that ur not after sex and tell her to stop stereotyping you. admit that u think of sex a lot (if it's true) but ur only being a normal guy! but also assure her that u care a lot for her and that ur not gonna do absoluately anything that she may not want to do. yet. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think that one of thereasons she thinks you want sex every time is coz a mans brain is in his ballS!

    when you see her next why dont you serjest going somewhere were it is not that easy to have sex!

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nah not at all, girls want sex just as much as boys, just like the majority masturbate as much...difference being is that they just dont act like it because "its not the done thing"

    like you have different girls, you have different boys, more similarity than you would expect
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by MasterDevilish:
    nah not at all, girls want sex just as much as boys,

    yeah you are right there we do and yes we dont show it as much as boys do and im sorry but boys have a reputation of always wanting sex!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Mega Poster Posts: 2,822
    i dont think all lads are sex obsessed. im probably worse than a lot of them <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by MasterDevilish:
    nah not at all, girls want sex just as much as boys, just like the majority masturbate as much...difference being is that they just dont act like it because "its not the done thing"

    like you have different girls, you have different boys, more similarity than you would expect

    i must say, i totally agree, but girls tend not to use lads as much!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    i dont think all lads are sex obsessed. im probably worse than a lot of them <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;


    *waits for alza to comment*

    I'll be sitting on top when it all goes wrong again
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WTF! YOU PEOPLE ARE TWISTING MY WORDS!! I HAVENT EVEN HAD SEX WITH HER YET! GAWD YOU NASTY PEOPLE!
  • the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Rampant Poster Posts: 487 Boards Initiate
    "she thinks that I only want to see her for sex"

    why would she think that if you never even have sex when you see her?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ive heard ur quite bad as well gfm

    something about no rhythm? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    call me satan <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/angryfire.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Mega Poster Posts: 2,822
    Originally posted by MasterDevilish:
    ive heard ur quite bad as well gfm

    something about no rhythm? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;


    nah you wouldnt have been talking to anyone that would know <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    depends - see the guy with the yellow raincoat, binocs and a tent in your garden...? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    call me satan <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/angryfire.gif"&gt;
  • the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Rampant Poster Posts: 487 Boards Initiate
    Originally posted by MasterDevilish:
    depends - see the guy with the yellow raincoat, binocs and a tent in your garden...? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    shhh!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    secrets out, what can i say

    the sign he carries, says "rent a friend" <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    call me satan <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/angryfire.gif"&gt;
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Mega Poster Posts: 2,822
    gaaah youre all mean spreading rumours bout my sexual technique! *sulks*... well ive not disappointed anyone yet <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; DALE GET OUT OF MY GARDEN!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A male's first instinct is to spread his seed far and wide.

    But then, another instinct often kicks in. The instinct to pair-up and protect the woman he has inseminated and the common offspring produced.

    This is a trap a lot of guys fall into. They THINK they are just in it for the pleasure because their raging sex drives push them into it in the first place.

    But then, other feelings take hold. They fall hopelessly in love.

    Women are more choosy at the start. After all, they must carry and care for the child that comes from a sexual union.

    Once they have this child, it becomes the main focus. The fella is secondary.

    Not so for the man. Now he is the one that must work to be included in the circle of love.

    It is the nature of the sexes. Understand it, do your part and it won't bite you in the ass.
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