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First time sex... eek
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Hi
Okey so im gonna get really honest, here because i like you people lol... I'm a virgin and im ready to have sex for the first time... except im soo incredibly nervous... My boyfriends super though so he understands but im still nervous...
It means a lot to me but i worry a lot generally, so im worried i won't be great and then theres the whole worry of what to do lol.... my boyfriends experienced... and his last girlfriend, well how do i say it nicely, she was a bit of a slapper and its common knowledge.....
If anyone can shed some light on stuff than that would be great..
okey so im gonna go hide now lol...
Playmate of the year
xxxxxx
Okey so im gonna get really honest, here because i like you people lol... I'm a virgin and im ready to have sex for the first time... except im soo incredibly nervous... My boyfriends super though so he understands but im still nervous...
It means a lot to me but i worry a lot generally, so im worried i won't be great and then theres the whole worry of what to do lol.... my boyfriends experienced... and his last girlfriend, well how do i say it nicely, she was a bit of a slapper and its common knowledge.....
If anyone can shed some light on stuff than that would be great..
okey so im gonna go hide now lol...
Playmate of the year
xxxxxx
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all you can do is sit back relax and let it happen. i don't think you should worry about it being great or anything like that. having expectations for your first time only lead to disappointment and wonder.
let your bf friend lead, tell him what you liked and what you didn't, and build from there.
once you've figured out how it all works, then you can worry about getting better.
good luck bunny.
nearly?!?
advice goddesses are ALWAYS right wild. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
[This message has been edited by Calvin (edited 29-06-2001).]
Just like you were right to tell Fat_Mike that I'm a porn star huh? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">
you mean you're not a porn star?!?!*
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*wildchild is not a porn star
that was a joke, not advice. i may not know how to be funny, but i'm always right. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
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Sorry to disappoint you, but no, actually <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
Well it was quite funny tbh..... and yes, I know you're always right really. I admire you very much big bro <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">