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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
My g/f wants me to perform oral sex on her, i've always wanted to try it out, she has given me head, but she feels its time I went down on her, the thing is, whats the best thing to do to bring her off, how do I sue my mouth, toungue and hands??

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Cherry_Pop_2001:
    how do I sue my mouth, toungue and hands??

    get a lawyer <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    Not very helpfull so I'll try and make up for it. Each girl is an individual and will like different things so there is no definite guide to it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif">. U need to experiment mostly through trial and error wot she likes and wot she doesn't like. Try going through the alphabet on her <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">.

    Others will help more and probably give u links as I'm sure this has been asked before - I cant be bothered to get them myself... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;

    Remember <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; - sorry couldn't let that one go!

    Those are models legs, but are they womans or are they mens?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    I can tell you what works for my lady, but not for yours, there are always gonna be a few differences. First off, don't just dive straight down there, kiss her entire body first, start with a simple kiss, work down the neck, breasts, arms, stomach (I love my lady's tummy!!), back, hips, thighs, calves even down to her toes if she likes that sort of thing. Get her entire body in on the act and take it slowly. Work your way back up and try and get a comfortable position 'cos your gonna be there for a while. Start on the inside of her thighs and work inwards, tiny pecks all over her outer lips will start her getting warmed up, followed a while later by longer licking motions to the inner and outer lips. She should now be ready for whatever you want to do. Don't feel you have to cram your entire tongue in her, you could concentrate on tiny, light licks over, under and around her love bump. If she's a vocal kinda girl she'll probably give you enough feedback when you're doing something she likes, if she's not don't be discouraged, unless you're actually chewing on her is actually pretty difficult to go wrong, 'cos it's all good baby!!

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Only users lose drugs
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thats sum GUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUD advice m'lord!!:: <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i've been getting off wiv this guy (were not that close yet, and hes said he wants to go further wiv me, we've both only snogged people, we dont wanna have sex but just go further. the only private place we have is his car.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Miss C:
    i've been getting off wiv this guy (were not that close yet, and hes said he wants to go further wiv me, we've both only snogged people, we dont wanna have sex but just go further. the only private place we have is his car.

    hi miss c & welcome here <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    there are alot of other things you can do, but you must only do what you are comfortable doing, never be pushed into anything.
    bb



    be happy
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by asho:
    Thats sum GUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUD advice m'lord!!:: <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    Thanks dude, it's the end result of a helluva lot of practise!!!

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    And if I could've modified the above smilie to include a curly hair poking out from between them teeth, I would've done.

    Only users lose drugs
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Hello Ms C!!

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Only users lose drugs
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah i will only do wot i want to, but what can i do bout us not having newhere private?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Miss C:
    yeah i will only do wot i want to, but what can i do bout us not having newhere private?

    try beauport, i heard it was very quiet there, but take a towel <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
    bb



    be happy
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Pretend that your tongue is a candle flame flickering over her clit.

    And that advice is straight from the porn set dude <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wildchild:
    Pretend that your tongue is a candle flame flickering over her clit.

    And that advice is straight from the porn set dude <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    as only wildchild*, porn star, could deliver it.

    *wildchild is not a porn star.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't give a fuck anyway, we split today
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hi
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cherry_pop_2001....
    what happened?

    oh and sorry for being nosy <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    virginity is like a balloon, one prick & it's gone 4ever.
    sex is like a tub of pringles, once you pop, you can't stop.
    life is like a dick, when it's hard, FUCK IT!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Hippy Chick:
    hi
    wtf??
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    wtf??

    yeah thats what i thought....

    sorry to hear about you and your gf cherry pop <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; what happened? you dont have to talk about it if you dont want to, but we're here if you do <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hi everyone, she went out to a party after we had argued about spending more time together and she didn't text or call me all night, I called her mobile and a guy answered and said " mate, she don't want to talk to you, shes with someone anyway" I confronted her about it the next day and she said " I was feeling down, so I got into someone, its your fault really for asking too much of me!!!"


    all I wanted to do was see her more often <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    awww thats rough <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; its NOT your fault. you had an argument, that doesnt give her the right to go and get off with other people and then blame it on you!! i guess she just wasnt as serious about the relationship as you were <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    you'll find someone else, someone who wont freak out at the idea of spending more time together and who wont treat you like that!! you're better than that <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dont give up m8. Im starting to think of giving up on ever findin a girl (ive never had one). So ur bette roff than me. Sorr for the bad grammar but im a bit drunk!!.


    Time if advancing slowly, feels like crap.

    Love advancing slowly, feels like a eternity diviness.

    Time advancing fast, feels great.

    Love advancing fast feels like an eternity of nothingless.

    Either way ur screwed.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    theres some quality sites on the net for help like this, have a quick read and look for common themes in them and these tend to work...
    http://www.google.com then do a search for "cunnilingus" this avoids the obligitary 1000 porn sites from puttin in "oral sex" and you should end up with some scripture from doctors, maybe extracts from guides etc

    hope this will help
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