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want to take things further
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me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a month and 2weeks and i want to take things to the next level but the thing is everytime i try to talk to him his mates are always there. shud i talk to him on his own or shud i just talk to him wen he's with his mates, i really like him and i really wanna go further with him, any help wud be great thanx!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0">
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If it's something you want to discuss first, make sure you do just that. THEN grab him and do 'im good <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
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Well I am a guy and when me and my g/f where going to the so called "next level" we talked about it because you dont want to go there and him not wanting to do it!! because he wont tell you that he doesnt want to do it but he will anyway in case he thinks you think he is a freezer etc, just talk to him. <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
no really, if you cant find a time to talk to him alone [and youd only want him to talk about his sex life with you and not his mates] then how would you have sex with him? surely not in front of his mates?!
if youre unsure at all, then its obvious then you arent ready to take things further, and when youve been together for longer and know each other better, there will be understanding and friendship as well as attraction.
"CAN YOU FEEL IT, HUH HUH, CAN YE CAN YE"
If he doesnt get the picture then, who knows what will!!!
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And you think thats something to brag about?
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