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want to take things further

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a month and 2weeks and i want to take things to the next level but the thing is everytime i try to talk to him his mates are always there. shud i talk to him on his own or shud i just talk to him wen he's with his mates, i really like him and i really wanna go further with him, any help wud be great thanx!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    havent u been alone with him yet?? and uve been going out for ver a month???
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    just chat to him,take him away from his mates though!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey yeah we have been alone just neva wen i wanna talk to him bout takin things further. weneva i decide to talk to him about it he's wiv his mates. were goin to a party on friday and ive decided i wanna take things further there, how shud i do it? shud i just grab him and lead him away or talk to him before the party? please help. thanx!
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    To what level do u want to take things?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Black knight this ones for u!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Personally, i think you should wait until the first level (communication - establishing some sort of normal human interaction) has been reached before you start the sex bit. How do you know you like him or not??? Mind you, conversations with the male species often seem pretty goddamn pointless sometimes...

    If it's something you want to discuss first, make sure you do just that. THEN grab him and do 'im good <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    word of advice: do not do it in the male toilets. they are basicllly rank and you do not want to be shaggin him while other blokes are pissin on the floor.plus the fact u wont have any gals lookin over or under the cubicle.

    have fun. <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey,

    Well I am a guy and when me and my g/f where going to the so called "next level" we talked about it because you dont want to go there and him not wanting to do it!! because he wont tell you that he doesnt want to do it but he will anyway in case he thinks you think he is a freezer etc, just talk to him. <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dont you think you should wait until you know each other well enough until you interact more <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">

    no really, if you cant find a time to talk to him alone [and youd only want him to talk about his sex life with you and not his mates] then how would you have sex with him? surely not in front of his mates?!

    if youre unsure at all, then its obvious then you arent ready to take things further, and when youve been together for longer and know each other better, there will be understanding and friendship as well as attraction.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    In a Ace ventura pet detective voice with the appropriate thrusting actions say to him

    "CAN YOU FEEL IT, HUH HUH, CAN YE CAN YE"

    If he doesnt get the picture then, who knows what will!!!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey u guys,thanx, nuthin appened at the party (coz his mate kept walkin in bein a knob) but we talked wen we were alone and we've decided we wanna take things further. thanx for all ur help, u've been great, and were not jumpin straight in at sex were gonna take things a step at a time, thanx very much u guys.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i no ur questions answered now but im confused after readin this thread! uve been goin out for a month and neva speak or u mean u neva get to speak about goin further sexually? sorry but im confused! how old ru?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I really think you should get a bit older before you start doing sex with blokes at your age. U R a bit young 2 be doing it so soon.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i am 15 and for ur info already had sex, we do talk and we sorted stuff out now. we've taken things further and were in love, we just neva got to talk about takin things further sexually. but now all my probs are sorted thanx to the people who were a big help to me. thanx
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by sex_kitten76:
    [QB]i am 15 and for ur info already had sex, /QB]

    And you think thats something to brag about?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Who said she was proud of it? She was just stating some facts. People are going to have sex under the age of 16 no matter what happens.
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