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Sorry me again
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Ok,sorry about this but I had to ask to get it off my chest...
Right,I was in wilkinson today shopping :mad: and there was this STUNNING girl on the checkout down from where I was.Strange thing is tho she kept glancing over at me and looked away as soon as I caught eye contact and then started playing with her hair. :rolleyes:
Anyway,it was really busy but could she have liked the look of me at all do you think?Is it possible for someone to fancy someone even in a chaotic shop!!?Even if it was quiet I still wouldnt have gone up to her though...A)because I was with my aunt so she would have taken the piss B)I would have been laughed out the shop if shed said no and C)she was WAAAAY out of my league anyway!! :crying:
So,back to the original point :banghead: would there have been any chance even in that messy thong of customers?Sorry for the rambling but I had to ask and get this off my chest..
Right,I was in wilkinson today shopping :mad: and there was this STUNNING girl on the checkout down from where I was.Strange thing is tho she kept glancing over at me and looked away as soon as I caught eye contact and then started playing with her hair. :rolleyes:
Anyway,it was really busy but could she have liked the look of me at all do you think?Is it possible for someone to fancy someone even in a chaotic shop!!?Even if it was quiet I still wouldnt have gone up to her though...A)because I was with my aunt so she would have taken the piss B)I would have been laughed out the shop if shed said no and C)she was WAAAAY out of my league anyway!! :crying:
So,back to the original point :banghead: would there have been any chance even in that messy thong of customers?Sorry for the rambling but I had to ask and get this off my chest..
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Or she was looking at the person behind you :chin:
Why do people on here have such a fear of rejection?!?! Sometimes you will like someone who doesn't like you back ... it will happen. It doesn't mean you are ugly or unattractive or a twat or anything else. It just means they don't like you in that way.
Its not an insult its a fact of life! If you don't ask you don't get! If you like someone then talk to them and see if they like you. Simple! If they don't, fair play, have a joke with them and forget it. Stop taking it personally! :banghead:
(p.s. lonely shy boy this isn't an attack on you ... i just get sick of people on here banging on about this sort of thing and i've had a shit day at work and am all out of patience and subtlety!)
See what I mean?
LOL
I totlly agree with Jon_UK.
I wish I had the guts to approach though......
Anyway,she told me this quietly in the swimming pool and didnt make a fuss but I still felt a total mong......... :banghead:
Although reading what was wrote she WAS really busy at work......not a good place to go and mutter "e eexcuse m me c c can I haavve y yyyour nummmbberrrrr pppleassee??"
No offence meant cos I wouldnt have gone over either!!
but yeah for the majority of the time I feel like asking if it's ok to get my heart back from under their trampling high heels.
Jon_UK... you hit the nail on the head mate. I try hard to see it that way (as in realistic terms) but still brick it from rejection, but then I'm a fool and admit I tend to live in a fairyland of the crush running towards ya in slow motion etc etc :banghead: