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can anyone reccomend a good one for a bloke?
i could look on amazon or something, but am more interested in peoples personal experiences with said books, if any.
i could look on amazon or something, but am more interested in peoples personal experiences with said books, if any.
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"How to give great cunnilingus!" could have its advantages, but I always end up laughing at erotic stories, because they always have phrases like "he slammed his 18 inches of throbbing man meat into her tiny wet prawn bucket, and pumped her full of hot white freshly prepared baby gravy".
a manual type thing for someone who really isn't very experienced.
If you're buying for a bloke who is inexperienced and you are/want to be intimate with him, I think you'd be better off spending the money on a nice hotel room and take the time to educate him your way. It'll be more satisfying in the end.
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Ah, I see, was a bit worried there.
I doubt a book is the solution tbh.
"things aren't working out as they should" awww bless em
Their upbringing probably is a problem, actually- if you've never been exposed to sex, then how are you supposed to know what to do? I'm sure they've grasped the mechanics, but that doesn't make it fulfilling.
i find it sad that their religion has ment that they have been so restricted they can't even show each other what turns them on as they simply don't know.
i personally think that if you don't know yourself what works then how can anyone else?
i will suggest the lovers guide anyway, thanks people.
agreed, but practice at the right things, not spending months wondering.
Aww.. that`s so sweet
I`d say forget the book and get them a DVD
or they can join one of those online DVD Rental stores and rent lots of them .. about 3 at a time for month for 10 pounds I think
But it is if you've never had the stimuli to fuel the imagination.
I think videos rather than books would be the best bet, as they can see it in action. But not pornographic videos, because they teach nothing.
As much as anything, they need their imaginations to be fuelled. They need some stimuli to work on, to work with. It doesn't really matter too much what it is. The sex pages in More would work just as well.
How the hell can he miss it?
Well thats got to be one the most fun things I've read all day. Sorry I don't know any good books.
check that out....gotta get her more confident and get his heart rate up!
I'm sure they've grasped the mechanics, but that doesn't make it fulfilling.
In actual fact, one of the first things I learned at Medical school was that out of the couples that present themselves to the GP complaining that they can't conceive, ~60% of the time it is a male infertility problem, ~30% a female, and 10% of them just aren't doing it right.
Madness.
God that last 10% must feel like this :banghead: